I'm so sorry for your grief... Death is hard even when one has comforting beliefs about it, because those beliefs are about spiritual truths and death is a matter that goes to the bone... There is no way to soften the loss of a dear friend's physical presence even if you believe that they remain with you spiritually, even literally. The body still yearns for the immediacy of the hug and the hand-in-hand... I don't fear my own death so much as I dread the deaths of those near me, and even more,... Sign in to see full entry.