Saturday, September 6, 2008
The day Kabir was leaving my friend Sheela called to ask if I could be a judge at a debate the next day. Short notice? OK, I said. The topic was India's Nuclear Deal: Curse or Blessing? The speakers for and against the motion were to be high school students from the Northern region in India.... Sign in to see full entry.
Friday, September 5, 2008
When a child leaves a home
Day before yesterday our son - Kabir - left home to go back to college, to begin his second year. He had been home for about 10 weeks. During this time he hung out with his friends, family on both sides, and got a job for about 6 weeks. We didn't see as much of him as we would have liked to, but I... Sign in to see full entry.
Tuesday, September 2, 2008
Living with Contradictions
Yesterday, as I went into town, I was thinking about the contradictions in life. I took a taxi from the neighbourhood pool, so I sat in the back, not having to worry about being a driver. At the red lights, teenagers and young women with babies would hold up their wares - magazines, pirated books,... Sign in to see full entry.
Friday, August 29, 2008
The American Elections
Having lived in America for 15 years, I take an interest in the elections. Including the present one. This is the first year that Indian media (print and TV) have covered as much of the election as they have. There are many 24x7 TV news networks that have mushroomed over the last 4 years. Some of... Sign in to see full entry.
Thursday, August 28, 2008
Lost keys and relevations
When I came back from my trip to Europe this summer, I could not find the key to the one locked drawer in our home. This drawer sits in an antique cupboard that stands by my bedside. The cupboard had a full length mirror on the outside of the door, four shelves inside, and one lockable drawer. In... Sign in to see full entry.
Tuesday, August 26, 2008
Dead Man Walking
How many times have I seen Dead Man Walking? I have forgotten. Truly. Yesterday when I was watching TV, I noticed it would be on today. I didn't register it as I have seen it. So, this morning as I started on my boiled egg, toast and papaya, I switched nt he TV, watched the Democratic Convention... Sign in to see full entry.
New beginnings and thanks
The second letter in the Arabic alphabet is Bae as in Bismillah. Bismillah means 'In the Name of Allah' and are the first words in the Quran. Muslims are taught to mention the name of Allah whenever beginning anything - getting HIs permission and help in everything they do. Bismillah ar-Rahamani... Sign in to see full entry.
Sunday, August 24, 2008
A is for Allah
In 2004, in my way way from Afghanistan, I was transiting in Dubai. Those of you who may have been in Dubai know it is a HUGE airport with an amazing duty free, an excellent hotel (I spent a night there) and 24 hour service. It's a major air travel hub. I first visited the United Arab Emirates or... Sign in to see full entry.
Saturday, August 23, 2008
The High of Therapy
For me as a therapist, it's all about feeling good. Very often people ask me: aren't you tired after therapy? No, no, I say. It gives me so much energy. When I have finished a session with a client, it has gone more or less as I planned and there is a definite movement (in the right direction) and... Sign in to see full entry.
Friday, August 22, 2008
A book release and a relationship
How time flies. My last post was on August 19 and lo and behold, its August 23 already. My goal is to do one blog a day. But, in the last few days, deadlines and a very full schedule has got in the way of doing this? Last night we went to a book release of the 26 year old daughter of my very dear... Sign in to see full entry.