Compassion brings together a clear-sighted, non-judgmental awareness of where another person is at, with an appreciation of what they are experiencing in that place. It is not about taking on the problem or solving it, or in any way interfering with that person's own process of finding their own answers. It is not about being helpful. It is not about giving anything, or taking, or rescuing. It is about waiting to be asked. Sometimes, it is about saying, "No." Sign in to see full entry.