Dear Abby, My husband has a long record of money management problems. He runs up huge credit-card bills and at the end of the month, if I try to pay them off, he shouts at me, saying I am stealing HIS money. He says to just pay the minimum, and let our kids worry about paying off the rest. Already, we can hardly keep up with just paying the interest. Also he has been so arrogant and abusive toward our neighbors that most of them, no longer will speak to us. The few who still do, are a very odd... Sign in to see full entry.