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Wednesday, August 16, 2006

Rescuing

Rescuing has always been my greatest down fall. The reading for today when you click on The Language Of Letting Go on the side bar talks about rescuing yourself rather than rescuing others. The difference in my life toady is that I know that over-helping others isn't helping them (or me ) at all.... Sign in to see full entry.

Tuesday, August 15, 2006

How deep are your roots

(Link changes daily) Today's Reading talks about the time it takes to establish good roots. How do you go with nurturing relationships and creating a loving environment. I must admit that when I was younger I was a rolling stone - but - these days I find it much easier to work at long term... Sign in to see full entry.

Sunday, August 6, 2006

differences keep us together

Todays reading talks about squabbles. The point is that if we are the same as each other relationships would get boring. And so we pick someone different from ourselves to compliment the way we see the world. So EXPECT differences. All sounds easier than done to me. Jo Sign in to see full entry.

Saturday, August 5, 2006

Attitudes Towards Money (oh oh!)

I have chosen to talk about the reading from The Language of Letting Go on the side bar when you click through. (Don't forget it changes daily so check the date.) The central idea is that we can tell a lot about our personal relating style when we look at "what we give to others, and what we allow... Sign in to see full entry.

Friday, August 4, 2006

are you beautiful because I love you?

Do I love you because you're beautiful Or are you beautiful because I love you? --Oscar Hammerstein Sorry I have been away from Blogging for a while. I am about to attempt to pick up the threads. I take the Reading of the Day from here and meditate on it for 24 hours. The trouble is I can't repost... Sign in to see full entry.

Thursday, July 6, 2006

Free Rent In Your Head???

"As long as you don't forgive, who and whatever it is will occupy rent-free space in your mind." -- Isabelle Holland Letting go is guess what this one is about. I find it much easier to forgive these days as I am continually looking for my part in situations rather than trying to work things out in... Sign in to see full entry.

Saturday, July 1, 2006

We work to become

“We work to become, not to acquire.” – Elbert Hubbard, editor That is a bit like the old saying we become what we write. I have found that - but - then again a lot of what I write is grants for funding. So if the grant is successful then we actually do move to becoming what we write about in the... Sign in to see full entry.

Friday, April 28, 2006

Doomed Relationship Model (women)

So from The Turth About Women....by David Wood A woman is taught from an early age to be giving, this is how she aquires value. You know the old story man+children in marriage. " This places enormous pressure on her to find a man and keep him happy. " Women are also conditioned to believe that they... Sign in to see full entry.

Wednesday, April 26, 2006

Do you understand the doomed relationship?

I have just been reading about the doomed relationship model. I thought that I would ask here...Do Bloggers understand why females and males miscommunicate? I will write up some stuff tomorrow but for today I thought I would just throw open the question, Jo Sign in to see full entry.

Tuesday, April 25, 2006

Finding Out Your Own Truth

Ahhhhhhhhh I find this stuff hard. The Language of Letting Go (Left Handside Bar) talks about 'finding one's own truth' I must confess I hardly know what that means. Even when goal setting I often baulk at the question what do you really really want. What would motivate me to work consistently hard... Sign in to see full entry.

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