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No, I don't understand human dynamics. lol.
Here are 8 clicks in appreciation for your 2 helpful suggestions. Thanks. :)
(A)
posted by
A-and-B
on April 28, 2006 at 2:08 AM
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Bright Irish
That is a part of it too!
trying to change the other to meet their needs
posted by
brisbane_artist
on April 27, 2006 at 2:18 AM
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Black Pearl
Itr is true enough too - all except the" just refuses to hear or see" bit.
It is more like can't or hasn't been trained to
posted by
brisbane_artist
on April 27, 2006 at 2:17 AM
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avant-garde yes
unfinished business is a big part of it
posted by
brisbane_artist
on April 27, 2006 at 2:16 AM
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(B) Yes BUT I guess I was asking why this ocurred
posted by
brisbane_artist
on April 27, 2006 at 2:15 AM
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Brisbane Artist
Hi.. I think that doomed relationships are caused when the people involved are trying to change the other to meet their needs and with real love they would be concerned with enhancing the spirit and well being of the other. I'm interested in what you will say on the subject. 
posted by
BrightIrish
on April 26, 2006 at 7:32 PM
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Hi, brisbane artist,
I think the biggest reason for doomed relationships is that somebody's talking too much, and somebody's not listening enough. It could be one or both people. People say things and give signals that the other person just refuses to hear or see. Just my thoughts. Thanks. :)
posted by
BlackPearl1
on April 26, 2006 at 5:30 PM
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brisbane
I think we look for our partners to be what our parents weren't, and therefore put all kinds of ridiculous expectations on them.
posted by
avant-garde
on April 26, 2006 at 3:18 PM
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Miscommunication and self-centeredness are some reasons. There are 4 clicks here for your idea. Thanks.
(B)
posted by
A-and-B
on April 26, 2006 at 3:09 PM
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