What if I said, "We are controlled by what we fear,and by what we love." I can illustrate: Recall the last fight you had with someone really close to you. Can you put yourself, emotionally, back in the middle of the conflict? If not wait for your next conflict, and become aware of your feelings. In either case, ask yourself this question: "Would I rather be right or happy and why?" If you answered, "happy", can you really be happy when you are not right? If you answered, "right", can you really... Sign in to see full entry.