Wednesday, April 12, 2006
Hi, all. It's been a while. So much has happened. He started coming around to visit the baby and that has been delightful. I have asked him if we could be a family. He was hesitant and even said no at first. But, he gave in and says that we will be friends first, he wants to take it slow. He says we... Sign in to see full entry.
Wednesday, March 29, 2006
Went to court
Her father took me to court but we didn't go before a judge because we agreed to sit down with a facilitator and work out our arrangements that way. He will only pay a small monthly child support because he is a full-time grad student not earning much money and he will have access to visit her... Sign in to see full entry.
Monday, February 27, 2006
He finally came around!
He finally came to see Sophia yesterday. I let him take her to church to his church so he had her to himself for about two hours. He left with her at about 7:45 a.m. and brought her back around 9:30 a.m. He smiled from the moment he saw me walking towards his vehicle with her in my arms. She was... Sign in to see full entry.
Friday, February 17, 2006
I can't afford a lawyer
My ex-bf is taking me to court so that he can get to visit our daughter without me present. He doesn't want anything to do with me and he wants that when he visits her, I just hand her over to him. That's not fair. I don't know where he lives now because he's moved twice since we broke up. Anyway, I... Sign in to see full entry.
Saturday, February 11, 2006
To my ex-boyfriend, James
I can't let it go. The false accusation eats me up. It gets under my skin and I can't let it go. I hate the fact that you believe I wanted a baby out of wedlock. I did not. That's why I cried so much when I found out I would be bringing Sophia into the world this way. Why did I come on to you that... Sign in to see full entry.
Thursday, February 9, 2006
Beyond Repair
I feel guilty of getting my baby girl off to a bad start in life by bringing her into this world to unwed parents. She'll never have that two-parent stability that is ideal for raising children. It bothers me that there is nothing I can do to change this. I know I was right for keeping her alive and... Sign in to see full entry.
Sunday, January 29, 2006
Preparing to get custody
My baby's father is taking me to court so that he can get visitation rights and so that the judge can make a ruling on what his child support payment will be. He does not appear to be looking for custody right now, just visitation. I need legal advice and I hope to get some pro bono counsel from an... Sign in to see full entry.
Monday, January 23, 2006
He is taking me to court
Now he is taking me to court. I got the summons on Saturday. He wants his visitation rights all of a sudden. When she was born, wild horses couldn't drag him to come see her. Now all of he sudden he wants to take me to court for visitation rights. Is this guy a crackpot or what? Sign in to see full entry.
Friday, January 13, 2006
Disgusting pedophiles
I just saw Donnie Deutsch's show. He had an investigative reporter on his show who had busted some pedophiles. The reporter and his colleagues would go on the internet posing as an underage girl. Sometimes as young as 13 years old. And guys would show up at the house thinking they were there to meet... Sign in to see full entry.
Sunday, January 8, 2006
No word from him in 2006
For those of you who are new to my blog. I just had a baby girl 3 months ago and her father has never come to see her. The first entry of this blog gives the whole story, if you care to read it. But for today, here's a letter that I would send to him if I could. Hi James, I hope that you are having... Sign in to see full entry.