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Afzal, I don't know if it;s about morality
as much about the changing nature of relationships. In the old days and even now, people in certain professions, like the arts, had a more generous view of sexuality. In the 21st century, there is more experimentation and people feel they want multiple partners, in and out of maariage. The reality is that people crave intimacy, are attracted to each other and sometimes act on it. Should they hold back or give in to their urges? It's really up to them.
posted by
Greenfields
on July 10, 2008 at 8:33 PM
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I'm confused. I will have to re-read this one Afzal ~ write on!~ Elyse
posted by
elysianfields
on July 10, 2008 at 8:31 PM
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Now I am reminded why single life can be just fine! Have a great day Afzal! sam
posted by
sam444
on July 10, 2008 at 9:59 AM
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Thought-provoking Afzal and also exposing double standards
posted by
Straightforward
on July 10, 2008 at 9:38 AM
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Re:
(sp) correcting bottom comment --> Hey come to Texas, cuz when you look like me it's NOT as easy as your article proposes (whew)
posted by
Smittenheimer
on July 10, 2008 at 9:34 AM
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Hey come to Texas, cuz when you look like me it's as easy as your article proposes
posted by
Smittenheimer
on July 10, 2008 at 9:32 AM
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Sweetheart
I know how you have been abused, at the hands of many.
I know and mostly understand your beliefs, and the reasons behind them.
Casual sex is a growing problem. Along with lies and broken promises, these things are destroying our world.
I will always love and accept you, no matter your past, or your view of things. 
posted by
Afzal_Sunny7
on July 10, 2008 at 7:37 AM
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I see what what you mean
by your comment on my article. Personally I've been in love way too many times. I fall in love easily but I'm not one for having sex just to feed a need. I've learnt that falling in love and being in love is not the same as having unconditional love for someone. There are actually a couple of people whom I will never stop having special feelings for, but to admit that publicly will probably get me some raised eyebrows and a scolding or two. I've tried hard to remain a virgin until I found someone really worthwhile in a time when most guys I knew were trying hard to get laid as often and with as much variety as possible (at least according to them). I eventually found someone and I care for her even today. Unfortunately society and maybe even herself (I've never been sure about that) weren't too keen on the relationship and it ended leaving me feeling devastated and it took me a long time to get over it. Even now, thinking about that time and her I still feel a degree of longing, but I really want her to be happy and if I'm not part of that picture, so be it. I also realize that both of us have probably changed much and we also tend to remember the good and forget the bad, so we may not even get along now anyway. I have fallen in love again after that episode and even got married till recently. I've tried to stay true to my wife and have had only two minor incidents (not sex as such) along lines that may not carry everybodies' approval, during the marriage, of which my wife was well aware and have even contributed to. I personally think someone who is married and cheats constantly is either married to the wrong person or has very little conscience and does not really care for anybody. I would have no problem being a polygamist, since that was pretty standard practice in many cultures and is even so today amongst various African peoples. I'm not many woman will be happy with such a situation and that being the case I'll probably never have more than one wife. Saying all this will probably contribute to me never having any wife again! Too bad.
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AardigeAfrikaner
on July 10, 2008 at 4:52 AM
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