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Re: Aww...thats so beautiful:-)
dark mitress,
Thanks!
posted by
afzal50
on May 27, 2007 at 9:35 PM
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Aww...thats so beautiful:-)
posted by
dark_mistress
on May 27, 2007 at 9:24 PM
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Sunny,
I am happy and honoured .Thanks!
posted by
afzal50
on May 27, 2007 at 8:37 PM
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Sweetheart
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You are the love of my life....my everything. I am blessed to have your love. 
I often hate to be so "practical". I used to be much more of a dreamer, like you. Then life happened, and circumstances change everything. 
It took so long in this life to find you. I can not lose you. 
posted by
Afzal_Sunny7
on May 27, 2007 at 8:29 PM
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Re: Afzal
Sunny,
You are right and I agree with you on many of the issues . I appreciate your wisdom and sweetness . I am blessed to have you as my sweet wife .Thanks !
posted by
afzal50
on May 27, 2007 at 8:12 PM
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Afzal
I will be here. You know how much I love you, sweetie.
It is probably different there, I realize. Here it is quite complicated to have a child...especially under the circumstances we will have with meeting the requirements and all.
There are so many things to consider love.
I need you here. I would never be able to handle you being deported if I got pregnant and we would no longer be able to fulfill the requirements of keeping you here. That is my first and foremost concern. Without you here, and with 3 kids...I would never ever be able to meet the requirements to bring you here again.....and that is aside from the fact that without you, I would just want to lay down and die.
Also you know all the meds I am on...I wouldn't be able to take any of them if I become or intended on becoming pregnant. I can honestly tell you that without my anxiety meds, I am not fit to be a parent for anyone. Like I said....there are many many things to consider. That is why I need you here with me so we can go through this...one thing at a time...and make appropriate decisions.
Also...you know that my view of God is somewhat different from yours. You believe that God is someone outside of yourself, that will give you help that you need. I believe that God is within and that you won't get any help that you don't create on your own.
posted by
Afzal_Sunny7
on May 27, 2007 at 7:55 PM
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Re: Afzal
Sunny,
Good Evening my love,
I know you do not like to rush for things without analysing the pros and cons but remember God is the source of all miracles . He shall heal you and make all and everything possible for us . YOu just have to say "Allah -o-Akbar" meaning "God is great" . You just have to focus on a thing thinking that it will happen and it will happen .
I know , you do not like to see me devasted for anything but I have complete faith in God and your support in all that I dream and desire from you.
I shall send the link after two hours when we shall discuss more over the plan .I've missed you .
God bless you .
posted by
afzal50
on May 27, 2007 at 7:37 PM
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Afzal
This is so very beautiful, love. I know how truly much you desire this.
Just please please please do one thing for me.... don't get your hopes too high.
We have to first and foremost work on getting you here and keeping you here. Once we are able to do that, there are still many things to consider. Having a baby here can run into the tens of thousands of dollars....and that's if everything goes well with pregnancy and labor....which they didn't with either one of my kids.
There are many other issues as well....along with the fact that we really don't know if I will be able to conceive and carry a child yet, at this point.
Sweetie, you know I said we would talk about this when the time comes. I just don't want to see you devistated if it doesn't or can't happen. It would devistate me to see that happen to you.
Good morning, darling.
posted by
Afzal_Sunny7
on May 27, 2007 at 7:28 PM
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Re: That's really sweet (assuming BOTH of you want kids.)
bandanafish,
Thanks !
posted by
afzal50
on May 27, 2007 at 7:14 PM
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Re: Afzal
Justi,
Thanks!
posted by
afzal50
on May 27, 2007 at 7:13 PM
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That's really sweet (assuming BOTH of you want kids.)
Babies are not for me, though. I can't stand having to see their poo.
posted by
bandanafish
on May 27, 2007 at 7:11 PM
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Afzal
posted by
Justi
on May 27, 2007 at 7:04 PM
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Re: Afzal...
Masky ,
Thanks !
posted by
afzal50
on May 27, 2007 at 6:27 PM
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Afzal...
posted by
---Masky---
on May 27, 2007 at 6:26 PM
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Re: Naaaaaaaaaaah no real baby, but dogs are ok.........hhaha
Star ,
Thanks sister !
posted by
afzal50
on May 27, 2007 at 5:47 PM
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Naaaaaaaaaaah no real baby, but dogs are ok.........hhaha
posted by
star4sky5
on May 27, 2007 at 5:45 PM
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Re: Sorry i don't read you more..i'll try
patmanplus,
Thanks!
posted by
afzal50
on May 27, 2007 at 5:39 PM
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Re: afzal
Offy,
One dream child that will be good and obedient like Sunny , Only if God grants the wish . Thanks!
posted by
afzal50
on May 27, 2007 at 5:38 PM
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Sorry i don't read you more..i'll try
That was just very nice.
posted by
Sudanym_
on May 27, 2007 at 5:38 PM
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afzal
Are you going to have more kids?
posted by
Offy
on May 27, 2007 at 5:35 PM
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