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Sunny,
I agree with you .Thanks.
posted by
afzal50
on February 27, 2007 at 7:58 PM
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Afzal
a b and c....if it was within my power.
posted by
Afzal_Sunny7
on February 27, 2007 at 7:54 PM
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Greenfields,
I think you have provided me a great insight to my problem . I agree with you but as you said my only dilemma is that I don't want to hurt anyone in my life . Thanks.
posted by
afzal50
on February 27, 2007 at 7:50 PM
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Complex, but not that difficult
If you really don't want to be with your wife, its best to tell her and move on. You are being truthful to yourself and her. Living a life of lies is quite horrible. We often don't have the courage to be honest because we hide behind many things - mostly about not hurtng others. What we don't realise is that we are already hurting them by not being there. We all make decisions in life that we regret. And, we and circumstances change. If we don't change we die. And, we need to address the change, with honour.
posted by
Greenfields
on February 27, 2007 at 7:42 PM
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afzal
you probably knew I would say what I said.
posted by
Lanetay
on February 27, 2007 at 7:23 PM
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lust,
Thanks for stopping by!
posted by
afzal50
on February 27, 2007 at 7:19 PM
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afzal
there shouldnt be a reason to fall in love, unless its mutural with the mate
posted by
Lanetay
on February 27, 2007 at 7:14 PM
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Talion,
I have had a very tough life and my marriages had been a marriage of cumpulsion to save some lives without actually being in love . Everyone doesn't have a smooth sailing my friend . Thanks.
posted by
afzal50
on February 27, 2007 at 6:07 PM
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afzal50
For me this would be a moot point. There's no way I would allow myself to fall in love with another woman while still married to my wife. The only way I could fall in love with another is if my marriage was over. If the marriage was over, I would've gotten a divorce long before this situation arose.
posted by
Talion
on February 27, 2007 at 5:58 PM
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A-and-B,
Thanks.
posted by
afzal50
on February 27, 2007 at 5:40 PM
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It is a very tough decision. Only the person can weigh the consequences. By the way, we're asking a question about British actors in our blog now. Please drop by.
posted by
A-and-B
on February 27, 2007 at 5:31 PM
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Justi,
Thanks for providing me the insight . Take care .
posted by
afzal50
on February 27, 2007 at 5:27 PM
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Afzal
No one can speak for what you should do but you. As for me. I would seek to shore up my marriage. That is because I made a covenant between God, my husband and myself. A covenant is do or die. I was not a Christian when I married the first husband. I divorced him. I am not a Christian and my covenant is powerfully important to me. I am speaking only for me and not condeming anyone else for their choices.
posted by
Justi
on February 27, 2007 at 5:13 PM
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richinstore,
Don't confuse me . Say yes or know .
posted by
afzal50
on February 27, 2007 at 5:10 PM
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afzal
posted by
richinstore
on February 27, 2007 at 5:03 PM
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