Go to Afzal 's view
- Add a comment
- Go to Autobiography of a Blogger from India .
Greenfields , your suggestion is very bold and encouraging . Thanks.
posted by
afzal50
on July 25, 2006 at 9:56 PM
| link to this | reply
Make a choice and take a risk
Being honest with one's self is the first step. What do you want? If you say you want to live alone, what is needed to make that happen? I think if you worry about what will happen to your six year old, you are doing her a greater disfavour by living at home, and living a lie. You can live alone and see her. It's upto you to negotiate that. Be bold, take a risk. Stop living a lie and dreaming about a life you don't have. Make it happen. It's all within your reach.
posted by
Greenfields
on July 25, 2006 at 9:38 PM
| link to this | reply
DarrkeThoughts,Thanks for your wise counselling . I am grateful to you
for opening my eyes.
posted by
afzal50
on July 25, 2006 at 6:39 PM
| link to this | reply
OFFBEATS, Thanks for your moral support .
posted by
afzal50
on July 25, 2006 at 6:35 PM
| link to this | reply
I can't give much advice...
I think the best anyone can do in such a situation is to be honest with their family about what they think/feel and hope that a better situation can be negotiated. Sometimes people need to come close to losing something/someone before they can appreciate what they have. Other times one small step at a time is the best approach to changing a situation. Whatever you do, it must be your choice, good luck.
posted by
DarrkeThoughts
on July 25, 2006 at 6:23 PM
| link to this | reply
Afza
That's a tough question, you are probably the only one who can answer it.
As far as living alone...I love it... Good luck!
posted by
Offy
on July 25, 2006 at 5:40 PM
| link to this | reply