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Lilane , No it is not easy to find any secret . There always remains some
secret which cannot be known by anybody .

posted by afzal50 on July 9, 2006 at 10:06 PM | link to this | reply

transparent
Usually the other person involved knows something is not right, either by your actions or something will let that secret out of the box

posted by Lanetay on July 9, 2006 at 9:52 PM | link to this | reply

Greenfields , you are right . I agree with you . Thanks.

posted by afzal50 on July 9, 2006 at 9:04 PM | link to this | reply

Discretion
I think that each of us has an internal life and some things are meant only for oursleves.  In relationships, not everything needs to be shared.  As a partner in a relationship, the question I ask myself is why do I need to share this?  Will it help or hurt my relationship?   If I am asked, and do not answer totally honestly, I have my reasons - to protect myself and others.  I feel it's a matter of personal discretion.

posted by Greenfields on July 9, 2006 at 8:47 PM | link to this | reply