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Joe
It does.  I try to maintain and stay calm but certain things send me right over the edge.

posted by Bel_ on November 3, 2005 at 9:27 PM | link to this | reply

Military_Wife
ugggggggh. The constant drama and worry would drive me up the wall. The cut n paste of the messenger was a nice addition to this post. Nice job.

posted by Joe_Love on November 3, 2005 at 8:35 PM | link to this | reply

Maggie
Yes it will!  I can't wait for him to be on solid ground again.

posted by Bel_ on November 2, 2005 at 9:11 AM | link to this | reply

MW, you are going to be restless till you have him back in your arms......
God bless you, Sweetie.  Best of everything to the two of you.  It will soon be over. 

posted by MaggieMae on November 2, 2005 at 8:37 AM | link to this | reply

Wrong Answer Mike
You don't get rid of me that easily, so then you better make sure I get an email at least once a week and a mailing address so I can send you lots of junk food.

posted by Bel_ on November 1, 2005 at 7:47 PM | link to this | reply

eh no one likes me that much
don't worry.

posted by mikebrown on November 1, 2005 at 7:45 PM | link to this | reply

Jacenta

It was, but I am lucky.  I did not lose him.

posted by Bel_ on November 1, 2005 at 7:45 PM | link to this | reply

Bright
thank you.  Very soon!

posted by Bel_ on November 1, 2005 at 7:44 PM | link to this | reply

Military_Wife,

That had to be so alarming for you, loving him as you do.  I am sorry you had to go through that.  It will be so wonderful when he is again home with you.   

posted by jacentaOld on November 1, 2005 at 7:39 PM | link to this | reply

MilitaryWife....
Stay Strong.. Carl, will be home soon.

posted by BrightIrish on November 1, 2005 at 7:33 PM | link to this | reply

Blanche
Thank you so much.  I am glad you never have to find out...I truly do not wish days like this on anyone...and mine turned out ok.  There is a family in Reni's hometown mourning someone they love and so many other towns as well, please know that while this is my story...it's not about me, it's about them.

posted by Bel_ on November 1, 2005 at 7:29 PM | link to this | reply

Mike?
YOU HAVE WHAT LEFT???  Oh honey, I hope you at least got a decent bonus for that.  This is the last thing I wanted to hear from you.    What I will say is remember this post IF (I refuse to accept when) you end up there and make a point of calling your mom once a week to let her know you are OK and keep in touch with those that love you.  You've followed my journey through this and there is so much I don't write.

posted by Bel_ on November 1, 2005 at 7:27 PM | link to this | reply

Oh Reni
I am so, so sorry.  I don't even know what to say.  I will be honest and say that I am so grateful that it wasn't Carl, but I am still so sad for the families that did lose someone. 

posted by Bel_ on November 1, 2005 at 7:24 PM | link to this | reply

Lisa
Yes this is his last full month in that place...there are small blessings in all of this.  Courage...nope, not something I have, had you seen me yesterday you would know I am as scared as anyone else.

posted by Bel_ on November 1, 2005 at 7:23 PM | link to this | reply

Militarywife,

If I say "I know how you feel", it would probably just piss you off, because right now I don't know anyone in Iraq personally.  If Michael were, by some godawful fluke, re-activated, despite a bad knee from a parachute jump at being 43, I would go berserk. I do care. 

posted by Blanche. on November 1, 2005 at 7:09 PM | link to this | reply

i hope he gets back ok

i have 5 years left on my enlistment.  it's not a metter of if as much as when.

sigh.

at least i'll look dashing in the tan uniforms.

posted by mikebrown on November 1, 2005 at 7:04 PM | link to this | reply

Back again...One of the ladies at the kids' school just found out that her
nephew died in Iraq last night.  I couldn't help but flash back to this post and start praying for you and my bf (whos hubby is there) again...

posted by Renigade on November 1, 2005 at 6:05 PM | link to this | reply

Military_Wife
I don't envy you, I admire your courage.  I don't know how you do it.   I'm so glad to hear he is OK.  You guys stay in my thoughts and prayers.  He'll be home soon right?

posted by LifeByLisa on November 1, 2005 at 4:47 PM | link to this | reply

Cosy

let his silly ass go!  He might just learn a lesson about doing dumb ass stuff to get your attention.  You deserve better than his crap!

posted by Bel_ on November 1, 2005 at 9:19 AM | link to this | reply

Militarywife
you scared the daylights out of me...I'm glad to hear he's ok! I'm sorry I've been lost but I've had no power for the last week or so. BTW my ex...enlisted to the Army national Guard...he wasn't lying . He's leaving this thurday to Tennesse. I'm miserable for the next 11 weeks. Love Cosy

posted by cosy on November 1, 2005 at 9:16 AM | link to this | reply

Mia
We do have alot of love...now if I just had my sanity LOL!

posted by Bel_ on November 1, 2005 at 8:09 AM | link to this | reply

Military_Wife
Ever hear the saying, "Love can get you through anything." I think you have a lot of that.

posted by MiaElla on November 1, 2005 at 8:05 AM | link to this | reply

Reni

Lots of prayers, little sanity and the faith in that promise Carl made me when he married me.  The man does NOT break promises and I trust he won't start now.

Thank hon

posted by Bel_ on November 1, 2005 at 7:12 AM | link to this | reply

OH God, I don't know how you do it. I just can't imagine.

posted by Renigade on November 1, 2005 at 6:59 AM | link to this | reply

Prof

Thank you so very much for your lovely words and for the time you will take to the light the candle.

posted by Bel_ on November 1, 2005 at 6:46 AM | link to this | reply

CHEERS FOR MW.

Dear MW.

Your writing has touched my heart.  I can feel the emotion in your words. I will not say much, but on the weekend when it is peaceful, I will light a candle and say a prayer hoping that the  time I will devote for you and your family will give you strength to go on. What you are writing is the reflection of thousands and thousands of Military Wife and Husbands. It is happy to note that someone like you represents them. Keep posting and I will keep reading.  your friend,  PROF-SUMAKEL33.

posted by PROF-SUMAKEL33 on November 1, 2005 at 12:06 AM | link to this | reply

Straightforward
and i don't even like those movies LOL!

posted by Bel_ on October 31, 2005 at 9:58 PM | link to this | reply

It's like a suspense-movie! Only it's the theatre of life!

posted by Straightforward on October 31, 2005 at 9:57 PM | link to this | reply

Rabbit
Thank you.  It's part of what I signed up for, but it doesn't mean I have to like it LOL!

posted by Bel_ on October 31, 2005 at 9:51 PM | link to this | reply

>:-| hugs, Military! so sorry you're having to go through this!

posted by wiserabbit on October 31, 2005 at 9:50 PM | link to this | reply

Katray
There are moments that feel all too close for me.  This was truly one of them.  I am usually the calm one, the rational one, the reasonable one.  There was no reason today.  Thank you so much.

posted by Bel_ on October 31, 2005 at 8:03 PM | link to this | reply

Wow, I was tensing in fear until I reached the conclusion Military Wife

A tiny dew drop compared to what you must be going through. Prayers and thoughts sent to you, Carl and all who are serving.

posted by Katray2 on October 31, 2005 at 8:00 PM | link to this | reply

Kingmi
Of that I have no doubt

posted by Bel_ on October 31, 2005 at 7:56 PM | link to this | reply

MW, He'll makeit!

posted by kingmi on October 31, 2005 at 7:48 PM | link to this | reply

Kingmi
We are down to the last full month with him in Iraq if all goes as planned.  Thanks so much!

posted by Bel_ on October 31, 2005 at 7:39 PM | link to this | reply

MW, I hope this ends for you, soon, and well. You deserve it.

posted by kingmi on October 31, 2005 at 7:36 PM | link to this | reply

Tapsel
There are days I just feel totally foolish.  Thank you.

posted by Bel_ on October 31, 2005 at 5:29 PM | link to this | reply

Millitary_Wife, How can you not be scared?   How can your heart not stop beating for a time?  How can you breathe while you wait? 

posted by TAPS. on October 31, 2005 at 5:25 PM | link to this | reply

Shadow
I can't wait either!

posted by Bel_ on October 31, 2005 at 5:17 PM | link to this | reply

MW,

Yeah, and I can't wait until he's back permanently. Bless him and all our soliders. Shadow

posted by Keshet on October 31, 2005 at 4:57 PM | link to this | reply

Shadow
The good news is I oly have to do this for a few more weeks.  Thanks

posted by Bel_ on October 31, 2005 at 4:55 PM | link to this | reply

MW,

Again, been there, done that myself. Its a constant worry for the friends and acquaintances I know over there. Every time one leaves I shout for joy, but seems that person is replaced by someone else I know. This is the Viet Nam II as far as I'm concerned. So glad to hear Carl is o.k. Shadow

posted by Keshet on October 31, 2005 at 4:45 PM | link to this | reply

Corbin
The appreciation of others means more than you will ever know to those troops.  Thank you so very much!

posted by Bel_ on October 31, 2005 at 4:35 PM | link to this | reply

Military Wife
Glad it was just a scare.........please thank your husband for me for his service to his country.  My prayers will be with him for a safe return from this battle with pure evil.

posted by Corbin_Dallas on October 31, 2005 at 4:34 PM | link to this | reply

Timmy
Some days are bit tougher than others.  But everyone is ok and that is all that matters.  Thank you.

posted by Bel_ on October 31, 2005 at 4:23 PM | link to this | reply

MILITARY
OMG!! That has got to be so hard for you.

posted by TIMMYTALES on October 31, 2005 at 4:20 PM | link to this | reply

Masky

Thank you.  I always feel like an idiot when I have a scare and I get like this to find it was something minor, but I have to admit, those were a pretty long 4 hours.

posted by Bel_ on October 31, 2005 at 4:14 PM | link to this | reply

Military...As you share events
of you and Carl's life on your blog, I feel as though I ride an emotional rollercoaster right along with you.  I'm able to somewhat detatch when I turn off my computer and tend to the lives of those who stand before more.  But then I turn on the tv or the news and am reminded of your struggle.  My heart goes out to you in the only way it knows how:  prayers, thoughts, and well wishes, an a hope that Carl comes home safely. 

posted by Masky on October 31, 2005 at 4:07 PM | link to this | reply

JoJo
Me too, God me too!  Thanks so much.

posted by Bel_ on October 31, 2005 at 4:02 PM | link to this | reply

Wow, You gave me goosebumps
so glad he's ok!!

posted by jojostar on October 31, 2005 at 4:02 PM | link to this | reply