Ashanti's Thoughts

You say the pass (Identification Document) system was brutal and it was unnecessary? Was it corrupt? I don’t think so. The people enforcing the law were corrupt. Not the system. I say so because during the apartheid era, the pass system made sure that South Africa had a controlled influx of illegal... Sign in to see full entry.

They say I am being negative. Am I? I didn’t mean to offend anyone. I was just calling it the way I see it. Back in the apartheid era, people had jobs, streets were clean; they had houses (4 room house). They had running water and electricity. Yes it was all government controlled but it was there.... Sign in to see full entry.

So last night South Africa lost to Uruguay 3-0. I am hurt, I am bleeding. It feels like my husband just walked out on me pregnant and broke. I don’t know that feeling but it is sure painful. At least we still have a chance if Mexico and Uruguay draw 0-0, and if we win against France. South Africans... Sign in to see full entry.

I was only born 23 years ago; infidelity has been and always will be, well maybe. If I can convince one mistress to stop, I think I would have played my part. They say men are dogs (not all men). But for the ones that are dogs, if we as women stuck together to stop these men using us to hurt our... Sign in to see full entry.

Men and women are meant to be complimentary sexes but we hardly understand each other.or we are just being difficult over nothing. While a woman gets upset if her husband doesn’t let her know of the little thing that affects her indirectly (like coming home late), the husband finds it difficult even... Sign in to see full entry.

I know it is too late for an apology, but still, I am sorry. i never meant to hurt you. had i gotten a glimpse to the future, i wouldn't have turned my back on you, i wouldnt have hurt you so much. i know you think you can love me just the way i am, but believe me when i tell you no human heart can... Sign in to see full entry.

Okay okay okay. Ladies and gentlemen! This is the lady of night. So take a sit and listen to what I have to say. I know you are all wondering, how could she? That I am the devil’s advocate. And all you hypocrites of Christians are already bowing your heads down to pray. Please, get a grip. Instead,... Sign in to see full entry.

So ladies and gentlemen of the world, when you come to South Africa for the world cup, be sure to be on the look out for more buildings than you expected. The big 5 is locked safely away in game parks. Here in the city, we keep our animals in a zoo. Women don’t walk around without bra’s covering... Sign in to see full entry.

Raised by a church going family, did everything by the book. I would have died for my belief in God, but lately, all that has changed. I never did anybody wrong, so why am I getting punished? I pray to God but my prayers fall on deaf ears. Who do I turn to? Who will protect me? Who will love me? My... Sign in to see full entry.

can someone please help me. i have something written on a womans body, it is a bit vivid. am i allowed to post this? Sign in to see full entry.