The Perfect and Holy Relationship

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Friday, August 4, 2006

Forgiveness Exercise

ð Understand their motivation? ð Listen to what your ego says it needs. ð Realize every one is doing the best they can. ð Realize that forgiveness is the quickest way out of your prison. ð Play Out Your mental trips. ð Watch your mental trips from a space of deep peace. ð Push till you are tired of... Sign in to see full entry.

Thursday, August 3, 2006

A Perfect Relationship Is Forgiving Con't

l Fuck-ups Are OK – We Accept the Inevitable Offending One Another l Active Forgetting – It is a Decision NOT to Bring It Up Again – It IS possible to Erase the Memory Just Like a Computer Disk l Forgiveness Is Total – No “Ifs, Ands, or Buts” Sign in to see full entry.

A Perfect Relationship Is Forgiving

“By my own pure essence and the sun of my empire! I will not let you go, I will lift you up in gentleness. I will illuminate your face with my own radiance and scratch your head with the ten fingers of forgiveness!” -Rumi Sign in to see full entry.

Wednesday, July 26, 2006

The Talk Grows Sweeter, The Walk Grows Deeper

We talk about joining our separate wills to become one unit of intention for a year ( Handfasting ) without flinching, either one of us. I can look back and see how I avoided doing this in past relationships. I had let myself get close, at times, but I knew I was afraid of losing myself in some kind... Sign in to see full entry.

Tuesday, July 25, 2006

Ah, the sweet beauty of life's twists and truns and unknown blessings

Things are beginning to return to normal (whatever normal is). She said she just needed space to work things out in her own way, so, I took her at her word and gave her space. Yesterday morning, we had a very fine discussion when I handed her Marianne Williamson's Book, Enchanted Love., with the... Sign in to see full entry.

Sunday, July 23, 2006

When Trouble in Paradise Spins Out of Control

Wow, I had no idea that things were headed to this depth of negative energy so soon! Things have not been resolved since Friday night's incident. But I am getting a clearer and clearer picture of the crisis. Insanity is rapidly replacing love and reason. Our discussions now all start as arguments;... Sign in to see full entry.

Friday, July 21, 2006

When there is trouble in paradise

Oh our silly egos are so fragile! As I awake this morning, I am aware that I have been in the bad graces of my beloved since last evening and all through the night. I could have taken the initiative to resolve the problems last night, but I consciously chose not to. While I know it shall be resolved... Sign in to see full entry.

Tuesday, June 13, 2006

A Perfect Relationship Is Safe

Exercise: 1. Form circles of 8 people. 2. Buddhist Prayer Wheels Dance. 3. Volunteer in the middle. close eyes. fall backward and give yourself to the group. let them roll you around the circle until you are blissed. give someone else a turn. 4. No one has to take a turn in the center. Sign in to see full entry.

A Perfect Relationship Is Safe

Physical Safety Safe Driving Common Sense Safety Emotional Safety no name calling Vulnerable Child is honored Honesty is practiced Spiritual Safety Sign in to see full entry.

Sunday, June 11, 2006

A Perfect Relationship Is Safe

“Beloved Ones of Allah, all these words are in hope of your falling awake and finding the truth in your own self. You know your own experience better than anyone else. Be true to that. Don’t let anyone pull the wool over your eyes; neither be swayed from what you know by the opinions of others.... Sign in to see full entry.

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