The Perfect and Holy Relationship

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Wednesday, August 23, 2006

Only God can make a relationship holy

I have been in enough serious (and ultimately failed) relationships to believe that with "man it is impossible, but with God all things are possible." I am hopefully maturing enough to allow God to make my current relationship, my last and my best. In fact, I wholly expect it to be Holy. I have no... Sign in to see full entry.

Monday, August 21, 2006

What is the purpose of a Holy Relationship?

Simply this: To Heal the wounds of childhood. To Share a Common Mission. To Increase the amount and quality of love in the world. To create a safe haven from the insanity of the world. To offer blessing to all who come within the sphere of the holy couple. (in some cases) To raise holy children... Sign in to see full entry.

Saturday, August 19, 2006

Extolling My Beloved's Virtues

There are so many things that I appreciate about my Beloved, that never come out when I am discussing our conflict. I want to share just a few: She has been so very generous to me as we have moved in together. She opened her home and her heart to me and allowed me to create my own space in the spare... Sign in to see full entry.

Friday, August 18, 2006

Walking a mile in My Beloved's Shoes

A new email from my beloved indicates that I am too ego involved in this story, so here is my attempt to walk in her shoes to present a "fuller" picture. From her perspective, I am careless and forgetful and I do have a temper. While I am slow to anger, nothing sets me off more than having her... Sign in to see full entry.

Of Course, There Are Two Sides to Every Story

Let my readers be so informed as to know that I am fully aware that there are two sides to every story. I am absolutely sure that my beloved has a different and just as legitimate take on everything I have shared so far. That, not withstanding, I continue.... I am in Arkansas working for a couple of... Sign in to see full entry.

. . . and SHE said "Time Wounds All Heals". There's a flip side . . .

Amazing the effect that the omission of pertinent details can have on a readers' sensibilities. HIS "Beloved" Sign in to see full entry.

Thursday, August 17, 2006

Nobody's War

They held a war this week, And nobody came. The warriors all stayed home. "It's not our fight," they said. "We have families to attend." Let the Rich Let the Generals, The Presidents and the Kings Go fight their own battles. If freedom belongs only To the baddest bully on the block, Then let the... Sign in to see full entry.

Saturday, August 12, 2006

Time Heals All Wounds

We are speaking again... we are making love again....go figure. I am assuming my walking papers have been temporarily suspended (I will ask). It appears to me that the passage of time had the largest share of responsibility for this change. I did take the reponsibilty to initiate a series of short... Sign in to see full entry.

Sunday, August 6, 2006

When Negative Separating Emotions Rule

At first, my beloved accepted the fire and its negative results with some compassion and acceptance. We both worked on washing the smoke damage. By midmorning, however, she was no longer talking to me, and obviously withdrawn. When I pointed that out to her she spit out some mild vitriol and... Sign in to see full entry.

Saturday, August 5, 2006

Practicing What I Preach

Who know I would get another opportunity to deal with and respond to forgiveness, repentance, atonement, and other sticky wickets that happen to couples. I certainly was afforded the opportunity to try the methods presented in my previous entry. Here is what happened: I decided to make breakfast and... Sign in to see full entry.

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