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Monday, October 4, 2010

Please Pardon Our Mess

It's funny, after writing for years on my own, I feel so self-centered when posting my cathartic verbage alongside my actual productive musings. Please pardon the mess if you have to wade through a little excess a little to get to something you can use or relate to. I would never say the journey is... Sign in to see full entry.

Sunday, October 3, 2010

Pointless - a catharsis

It would be pointless for me to get drunk It would be pointless for me to get high Nothing would change if I made a mess It would be pointless for me to cry. I can’t just show you up I can’t just say ‘so there’ You sit alone So far from me And probably don’t even care. My remedies don’t work It’s... Sign in to see full entry.

What do you get when you cross a Priest and a Bartender?

So my degree is in Psychology and I have worked in the field in variety of ways, but I have also worked in coffee for about 10 years and I LOVE IT. As previously stated in another entry, I joke that my longest relationship is with coffee (not really a joke). But here's the thing: It all comes down... Sign in to see full entry.

The Prettiest Lone Ranger

I am the last thing you would expect. I am not a social butterfly or a Barbie Doll, but you also could not pay me enough to wear a pantsuit. I can schmooze it up with the best of them, but my tolerance for BS is exceptionally low. I always joke that my longest relationship is with coffee, but that's... Sign in to see full entry.

Learning What I Need to Know

I'm always thankful when I learn what I need to know. Whether it takes the tough times to figure it out, or it's just one of those random lightbulbs that suddenly brighten, I am so thankful for those key moments of clarity that illuminate our lives to the point we can move forward. It really is true... Sign in to see full entry.

Pictures

Damn those pictures Damn picturing you without me. Damn that sexy smile Damn you Making me Weak in the knees. Sign in to see full entry.

Saturday, October 2, 2010

Don't Take Crap

Huge Pet Peeve: When girls put up with way more crap from a guy then they ever would from a girl (friend). Case in point: A guy recently thought he could blow off plans and then not call when he said he would to make the rain-checked plans. He then acted surprised when I wasn't too interested to... Sign in to see full entry.

A Head Trip is Never Worth It

If there is ONE THING I have learned from years of dating, it is that a Head Trip is Never Worth It. Is it ever worth the hours spent analytically dissecting a phone call or text? No. Have you ever wasted days of your precious life on Earth wondering if he would or wouldn't call you (and why or why... Sign in to see full entry.

Open Hand

The best thing you can do in a relationship (especially a new one) is live with an Open Hand. No one likes to feel closed in, especially guys. The more freedom they have to come and go, the more you will see how much they actually want to be there. The worst way to live life is staring at a phone,... Sign in to see full entry.

95% Great

I'll begin my foray into Blogit by recalling a recent interaction with a friend who has been seeing a guy for three months. Things are admittedly "Great" between the two of them, except in certain isolated moments which have my friend second-guessing the whole relationship. At this point, I... Sign in to see full entry.

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