Inside The Purple Purse

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Friday, March 13, 2015

Day trip went well

It rained all day, but, I really enjoyed getting out. I love to drive. It was about a 2 hours drive there. I saw the outside of the little cabin. Amazingly pristine. I met with Floyd who watches after the place and checks regularly on year round residents. He was a delightful older man. He was under... Sign in to see full entry.

Murphy NC

Going to Murphy today, looking at the cabin and also found a foreclosure. I'm looking forward to being alone for the day. Get my thought straight or maybe get bored, I dont know. But I doubt boredom is on the schedule. Did fairly well this week working. I don't know what to do about Joe. On one hand... Sign in to see full entry.

Murphy NC

Going to Murphy today, looking at the cabin and also found a forclosure. I'm looking forward to being alone for the day. Get my thought straight or maybe get bored, I dont know. But I doubt bordom is on the schedule. Did fairly well this week working. I don't know what to do about Joe. On one hand I... Sign in to see full entry.

Thursday, March 12, 2015

Too much to say.

No one could reach the owner of the cabin. Finally I asked if they could find out what facility he was in. They after some time found that. So I called and explained that we have been trying to reach him with an offer to buy his property in NC. They said that they would find out. Then a very frail... Sign in to see full entry.

Wednesday, March 11, 2015

Debt to income

Heard from one lender who says we are just on over the debt to income level. He suggests I pay off my car. The alimony is added in as a debt and not an obligation. Maybe Joe will do this. He called the lender back to talk with him. I in the meantime am working as much as I can. Don't know how long... Sign in to see full entry.

Tuesday, March 10, 2015

Recurring Shingles

I is rare to get shingle more than once in a lifetime. I have had recurring shingle since I was 28. Although they have cured the newer generations of chickenpox, the ones in college are now more commonly having recurring shingles. My daughter, unfortunately, has had them on her face, neck and head 4... Sign in to see full entry.

Making an exit plan and have bags packed.

You are getting it backwards, he states we are not getting a divorce. I offered a very cheap and reasonable way out for him. I even found a woman through a friend who teaches mediation, willing to come and help us mediate the differences. Her and her husband were going to come for $200. Drive 2... Sign in to see full entry.

Monday, March 9, 2015

Out of the ordinary today.

Things are different today. I feel a shift. I became very nervous today. Dora brought over some furniture today. She closed shop and had to shift everything at her home and I bought a set of leather sofa's and a cherry white washed dinette. They are in the garage because there is really no where... Sign in to see full entry.

Not for Pity

These posts are not to get pity. Hopefully it is the documentation of my journey to freedom. That is my intent. I know now that I am dealing with something that will not change nor, do I think I can erase the things that have happened in the past year. This time is different. I know that I have to... Sign in to see full entry.

Saturday, March 7, 2015

I did a search on "Domestic Violence" on Blogit

I was shocked by the # of entries are there. It is very misunderstood unless you have been there. 25 years ago, the Pastor would ask what I had done to cause this, and I should have the grace and mercy to forgive. So I stayed and stayed. A couple of pets were killed and then it bled to the children.... Sign in to see full entry.

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