"Sarah, though, was still sometimes ruled by stark pain, lost to everything else. Grief slipped away, only to attack from behind. It changed shape endlessly. It lacerated her, numbed her, stalked her, startled her, caught her by the throat. It deceived her eye with glimpses of Charles, her ear with... Sign in to see full entry.
Thursday, September 4, 2025
Wednesday, September 3, 2025
"You who have never "been there" in the throes of grief, have no idea what is going on inside the head of the grieving spouse: the scattered thoughts, the constant worry that we will forget something or someone in our fog-induced state, that strange feeling of not quite "being all there" when out in... Sign in to see full entry.
Tuesday, September 2, 2025
"Grief is always sudden as winter, no matter how long the autumn." - J. Aleksandr Wootton, Forgetting: impressions from the millennial borderland Even if you thought you'd be ready for death, you probably found that you weren't. You may feel a sense of relief for the person if they were in pain, or... Sign in to see full entry.
Monday, September 1, 2025
"The tough times start," he said, "the day the last casserole dish is returned." - Michael Perry There is a palpable silence when the rituals surrounding a death are over. It feels like this is the new normal, but it is just a transitional phase. You can fill your home with sounds, life, and love... Sign in to see full entry.
Sunday, August 31, 2025
"It didn't help when he told David that his mother would always be with him, even if he couldn't see her. An unseen mother couldn't go for long walks with you on summer evenings, drawing the names of trees and flowers from her seemingly infinite knowledge of nature; or help you with your homework,... Sign in to see full entry.
Saturday, August 30, 2025
"Respect your needs and limitations as you work through your grief and begin to heal." People may be asking you what they can do to help. While well-intentioned, that question can feel overwhelming. You could reply with a comment like, "Thank you so much for asking. This has been so tough for me...I... Sign in to see full entry.
Friday, August 29, 2025
"When those you love die, the best you can do is honor their spirit for as long as you live. You make a commitment that you're going to take whatever lesson that person or animal was trying to teach you, and you make it true in your own life... It's a positive way to keep their spirit alive in the... Sign in to see full entry.
Wednesday, August 27, 2025
"It takes so little... to lose it; grief and disappointment can take one's faith away so easily that you might wake one morning and have none left." - Susan Fletcher, The Silver Dark Sea What were your views of God or some higher power before your loss? Have they changed as a result of it? For many... Sign in to see full entry.
Tuesday, August 26, 2025
"Century after century, the belief that an individual's physical health was independent of his or her emotional health has so dominated medical thought that there has even been open contempt for anyone who would dare to claim that a person's physical well-being is the sum of its internal and... Sign in to see full entry.
Monday, August 25, 2025
"Grief is beautiful?' She thought it was the most dreadful feeling possible. At best, she viewed the world through a haze, and at worst, everything looked black. 'It means you've loved another with all your heart,' Luka said. 'What's the use of being alive if you've never loved like that, not even... Sign in to see full entry.