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Sunday, July 24, 2011

Emotional Affairs……………….

At the same time I was dealing with the sexual affair, there had been an emotional affair that started two years before the sexual one. I never thought about these kinds of affairs. I was busy with just working and living my life as each situation or problem came along. I don’t even know if I really... Sign in to see full entry.

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Saturday, July 23, 2011

God works in mysterious ways……………….

The evening of the same day my husband went to the Men’s Power Luncheon, “her truck” was picked up. It had taken us two long years before things worked out for us to repossess it. I didn’t even want to look at that truck and here we were going to have to pick it up and find someone to buy it. I... Sign in to see full entry.

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Friday, July 22, 2011

He met Ted DiBiase...the Million Dollar Man

My husband has always been a wrestling fan of Ted DiBiase and many others when he was growing up. About a year and a half ago he saw him on a TV program sharing his testimony and commented that someday he would like to meet him if he ever came to our area. Two weeks later, one of our largest... Sign in to see full entry.

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Thursday, July 21, 2011

Renewing our vows………….

I gleaned a little more knowledge, more hope, more encouragement from every book God led me to during this time. The next book was to give me a new perspective on marriage. I had gone to the Dollar General store one day to get some things and found myself in the book section. The one that “caught my... Sign in to see full entry.

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Wednesday, July 20, 2011

How can I live in the present while the past is still here?

We had owner financed a house to the young woman’s mother and so there were so many things involved in our situation that we couldn’t just drop all contact like I wanted to. All the articles I had been reading on affairs told me that unless all contact from the other party was stopped, I wouldn’t be... Sign in to see full entry.

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And you ask what inspirational card did I put in the envelope?

In crisis like mine you go to the net or to books or to anything that will give you relief and hope for your suffering. And every time I would go somewhere like a doctor’s office there would be some article in the magazine that seemed to be just what I needed to read. One day as I was surfing the... Sign in to see full entry.

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Tuesday, July 19, 2011

Self-esteem...where did it go?

There have been many things I have had to overcome these past few years and one of them is jealously. I have always tried to keep my appearance neat and clean and my weight down to size but when you are in your 50’s and you find out your husband has had an affair with a beautiful young Mexican woman... Sign in to see full entry.

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Monday, July 18, 2011

And here is the question we always ask...Why me?

When we go through a lot of bad stuff in our life, we always seem to ask that question, don’t we? Well, I asked God that many times in the beginning. I just wanted some explanation of why it had to be me and why things turned out the way they did. (I was not humble in those days). The night before... Sign in to see full entry.

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Sunday, July 17, 2011

I sought counseling and found Blogit...

To all of you who have shared your thoughts and wisdom and compassion to me, I am truly grateful. Just knowing that you are there is of great comfort. Sign in to see full entry.

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He said, "Sin no more son, come on home"...

When my husband repented of what he had done, he had had a dream early one morning about five days after his other life had been revealed. And in this dream God was speaking to him. "Sin no more, son. Come on home". And this was when he felt that God had forgiven him for what he had done. But I was... Sign in to see full entry.

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Life is too short to wake up with regrets. So love the people who treat you right. Love the ones who don't just because you can. Believe everything happens for a reason. If you get a second chance, grab it with both hands. If it changes your life, let it. Kiss slowly. Forgive quickly. God never said life would be easy. He just promised it would be worth it.

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