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Wow, you write so clearly about such an ordeal.

posted by Darson on January 5, 2010 at 8:32 AM | link to this | reply

I am stunned! What a thing to have to endure! I knew you were right on the return, they never truly leave! I could appreciate your rejoicing for it was just short of a nervous breakdown from the reading, just a humble thought! But you were suffering serious trauma and it felt so much like clinical depression and that can have devastating results if one has to continue to endure the circumstances you were bound by in this situation! You are indeed a survivor! sam

posted by sam444 on January 4, 2010 at 3:38 PM | link to this | reply

May God bless your heart and give you all the power that you needed   Hope the new year will open its doors to you and your kids and give you love happiness security and joy.

posted by Chuck_E_Ibrahim on January 3, 2010 at 8:53 PM | link to this | reply

TZippy
all I can add is may God bless you and your beautiful children.  I hope healing surrounds you all.  This touched my heart ~ Elyse and may fear not linger -

posted by elysianfields on January 3, 2010 at 8:08 PM | link to this | reply

....wishing you the very best and sending healing thoughts...moon

posted by magic_moon on January 3, 2010 at 5:57 PM | link to this | reply

Tzippy
You have come a long way after your accident, and although the road ahead is still hard, I have the impression that you're a very capable and determined woman, and you will succeed! And that one problem has removed itself (himself) from the scene is in the end a plus...

posted by Nautikos on January 3, 2010 at 1:53 PM | link to this | reply

That sounds like such an unhappy time for you, to say the least.  It is amazing what a human being can go through, physically, mentally, emotionally, fearfully and make it through eventually to the other side of the darkest times, into the light.

posted by TAPS. on January 3, 2010 at 10:48 AM | link to this | reply

What strength you had to muster up!

posted by Troosha on January 3, 2010 at 9:11 AM | link to this | reply

The memories tihis brings back
I can so relate to this as I went through something similar with my ex. (the one I went of the cruise with) Thank goodness for the passage of time.  Many blessings.

posted by skye08 on January 3, 2010 at 5:47 AM | link to this | reply

Tzippy

b The knocking on the door alone turns me off. There’s a better life that you deserve love.  

posted by BC-A on January 2, 2010 at 11:45 PM | link to this | reply

Very powerful writing... Michael

posted by The_Saint on January 2, 2010 at 9:32 PM | link to this | reply

Tzippy
Pained to learn the realities of your life. Probably these trials will lead you ultimately to something bright and sunny which, I know, will come so suddenly that you may probably not believe it to be true. May God grant you the happiness of life you now deserve so much. Thanks also for your reading and appreciating my contributions.

posted by anib on January 2, 2010 at 9:28 PM | link to this | reply

That is a very unfortunate situation for you and your kids but it seems as though you are very strong and are getting through it.  WIsh you the best.

posted by PoetikliNclynd on January 2, 2010 at 3:56 PM | link to this | reply

So difficult it is to move on from trauma, but you're doing it day by day.

posted by FormerStudentIntern on January 2, 2010 at 3:21 PM | link to this | reply

You need a dog - a, huge, intimidating, loyal to you & kids, nasty-to-ex, dog. Excellent emotion Tzippy.

posted by adnohr on January 2, 2010 at 12:27 PM | link to this | reply

 Very well written ... drenched in emotions,  itt had me at the edge of my seat .  You survived it darlin' so don't look back :-)  xoxoxo

posted by Sinome on January 2, 2010 at 11:11 AM | link to this | reply

Strength is all around, and it seems from my view outside that you are stronger than you feel; you've proved it.  Someone said 'existence itself is a success.'  Count yourself a winner, however imperfect the days are or how deep the doubts.  Seems to me, you're still standing!     

posted by OutaBreath on January 2, 2010 at 9:22 AM | link to this | reply

Kinda makes a girl think about taking up shooting as a hobby,
what a cowardly jerk that ex turned out to be. Too bad you don't have a big Marine brother who could have a man-to-man conversation with the ex.

posted by Pat_B on January 2, 2010 at 9:08 AM | link to this | reply

posted by Star5_ on January 2, 2010 at 8:58 AM | link to this | reply

Good news like this is.....
a great start on a year of rebuilding.......you know you can do it!

posted by Corbin_Dallas on January 2, 2010 at 8:41 AM | link to this | reply