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I ,ve been away on vac. so sorry you lost your friend.
posted by
muley12
on March 24, 2009 at 7:25 AM
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So sorry to hear that you lost your Ben
I had a beautiful companion Bobi who we lost on the 19 th of November last year. Bobi was with me for 12 years and I miss her. My son who had never known life without Bobi constantly asks about her lately. I think he is finding it very hard to accept that she will not be coming home.
Always sad to have to say good bye to one of our four legged friends. I know he misses her very much and I hope you find some comfort in knowing that he is running with the spirits of the land and pain free now.
posted by
Norwood
on March 22, 2009 at 7:02 AM
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How sad for you, but how wonderful that he was your friend for so long. You will always have your memories. Great post.
posted by
TAPS.
on March 19, 2009 at 1:41 PM
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A wonderful story of a true friend.
posted by
Rockingrector_retd
on March 19, 2009 at 10:16 AM
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So, I'm a big baby and couldn't stop the tears at the end
of this story, remembering the loss of good four-leggeds whose time came too soon. I'm so sorry your friend is gone.
Obits for a loved one are the hardest writing, and this was beautifully done.
posted by
Pat_B
on March 19, 2009 at 5:58 AM
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Awww I am so sorry that Ben is gone. He was such a fine dog and friend. It feels like hearing a special friend died after we became aquainted in your posts. Hugs
and yes you may print some poems of mine ,thank you for asking! Catch you next time.
posted by
merkie
on March 18, 2009 at 9:46 PM
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(((((((Adnhor)))))))) My heart goes out to you... Your post was a beautiful tribute to your dear friend... I am sure there is a place in heaven for dogs like Ben... and from there he must be smiling proud at his talented master and wagging his tail, xoxo
posted by
Sinome
on March 18, 2009 at 9:26 PM
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I am sorry to hear that you have lost your faithful friend; an animal can play such an important role in a family. You will always have wonderful memories to look back on.
posted by
elinjo
on March 18, 2009 at 9:21 PM
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Re: I am so very, very sorry. xxxoxo
Thank you Cricket. When we are sad, it helps alot to know friends care.
posted by
adnohr
on March 18, 2009 at 9:12 PM
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Thanks for understanding, Nautikos
And I believe you about the cat. My sister had one who would 'bark' at flies - she picked it up from a neighbour's poodle. It was quite funny to watch!
posted by
adnohr
on March 18, 2009 at 9:11 PM
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Corbin Dallas - what a beautiful thing you have shared!
I have never heard of the Rainbow Bridge. This made me cry all over again, but with healing this time. I'm going to copy and post it on my family blog so that others who knew & loved Ben can read it too. Thank you - it was so kind and thoughtful of you to share this.
posted by
adnohr
on March 18, 2009 at 9:09 PM
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Re: it is just awful when they go they are family and it hurts. A big hug from
Thank you for the hug Kabu. I was sure needing it!
posted by
adnohr
on March 18, 2009 at 9:06 PM
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Thank you Wiley
He was a good and loyal friend.
posted by
adnohr
on March 18, 2009 at 9:05 PM
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You are right auslander
They do become part of the family, and it is hard to see them go.
posted by
adnohr
on March 18, 2009 at 9:04 PM
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Thank you Sam444
I hope he does know.
posted by
adnohr
on March 18, 2009 at 9:02 PM
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Re: I am sorry for your loss
Thank you Mysteria - I will miss him terribly.
posted by
adnohr
on March 18, 2009 at 9:01 PM
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I am so very, very sorry. xxxoxo
posted by
hazel_st_cricket
on March 18, 2009 at 6:00 PM
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adnohr
I'm so sorry! It's terribly sad to lose a member of the family, and that's what our pets are! We have several dogs in our extended family, they often move around between houses for various reasons (people travelling, mostly) and are happy wherever they are.
Recently we lost one of them, Ozzie, a gentle German Shepherd who was 14, and who had lost the use of his hind legs. The tears were flowing when we said goodbye. My daughter, who was the 'owner', can't bring herself yet to get another doggie, but then she has her cats...
And here's something really strange: Ozzie, gentle and peaceful as he was, didn't like squirrels, and used to bark at them. One of my daughter's cats has picked up a weird, very uncat-like 'woo-woo' sound from Ozzie, when ever she sees a squirrel...I've heard it myself...
posted by
Nautikos
on March 18, 2009 at 5:52 PM
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So sorry on your loss......
only dog lovers can understand the bond between "family" members........but the pain is over and someday you'll see Ben again at the Rainbow Bridge...................
Just this side of heaven is a place called Rainbow Bridge. When an animal dies that has been especially close to someone here, that pet goes to Rainbow Bridge. There are meadows and hills for all of our special friends so they can run and play together. There is plenty of food, water and sunshine, and our friends are warm and comfortable.
All the animals who had been ill and old are restored to health and vigor. Those who were hurt or maimed are made whole and strong again, just as we remember them in our dreams of days and times gone by. The animals are happy and content, except for one small thing; they each miss someone very special to them, who had to be left behind. They all run and play together, but the day comes when one suddenly stops and looks into the distance. His bright eyes are intent. His eager body quivers. Suddenly he begins to run from the group, flying over the green grass, his legs carrying him faster and faster.
You have been spotted, and when you and your special friend finally meet, you cling together in joyous reunion, never to be parted again. The happy kisses rain upon your face; your hands again caress the beloved head, and you look once more into the trusting eyes of your pet, so long gone from your life but never absent from your heart.
Then you cross Rainbow Bridge together....
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posted by
Corbin_Dallas
on March 18, 2009 at 5:35 PM
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it is just awful when they go they are family and it hurts. A big hug from
me
posted by
Kabu
on March 17, 2009 at 9:00 PM
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adnohr
I am really sorry about your Ben luv, God Bless you in your grief and love for him......
posted by
WileyJohn
on March 17, 2009 at 8:44 PM
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I really understand your lost. Only people who have dogs can understand how painful it is to loose such a friend. They really are part of our family. I'm sure he is now peacefully sleeping at "home".
posted by
auslander
on March 17, 2009 at 6:23 AM
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I am so sad for you! Poor Ben, I think he knows he's home! I shall shed a tear in his honor! sam
posted by
sam444
on March 16, 2009 at 11:41 PM
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I am sorry for your loss
You have spoken such sweet and pure words of true love in Ben's honor...
posted by
mysteria
on March 16, 2009 at 10:49 PM
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