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Re: Skye
He was cigarrate smoke and all.  He usually comes around at 4am and I smell cigarrates.  I ask him to smell like flowers but that wouldn't smell like him.

posted by skye08 on October 2, 2008 at 9:20 AM | link to this | reply

Skye
Perhaps your Dad was even watching over you as you wrote the post.  Thank you for sharing your story - your father's story. 

posted by Troosha on October 2, 2008 at 8:20 AM | link to this | reply

Thank you
     I know that I always say the same thing.  But I mean it.  Thank You so much for shareing such special memories with us.   You write so well that I truely feel like I am right there with you.

posted by ravenmarie on October 1, 2008 at 7:12 PM | link to this | reply

I was so in this. Losing a family member to cancer is the worst; I felt my brother-in-law when I was reading this. sam

posted by sam444 on September 30, 2008 at 4:24 PM | link to this | reply

Thank you for sharing. It renewed memories for me. Keep up the good care for Richard. Blessings sent to you

posted by merkie on September 29, 2008 at 4:13 PM | link to this | reply

Being a caregiver.

    WOW! This posting just blew me away!

     I too, am a caregiver for a lady that I care deeply about. She will not go quietly or meekly into that good night. I hope that she will outlive me, but a part of me knows better. Marilyn has MS and this is incurable, progressive, and ultimately fatal because while the disease does not kill anyone, the effects of it eventually will. My heart goes out to you. You expressed thoughts and concerns that millions of us have had. I also deliver "meals on wheels" to seniors who are on the same path to the grave, the same path that we all are on. Nobody gets outta here alive!

    A wheelchair-bound lady once told me that I am a "Tab." She explained that I am just "temporarily able-bodied." If everyone saw things the way she did, we might live in a better world! Thank you for what you wrote. You have performed a great service with this posting.

     Guy

posted by northsage_45 on September 29, 2008 at 4:05 PM | link to this | reply

(((((((Sky)))))) That was a sad but beautiful story.  You are lucky you were there when he passed.  What a wonderful gift to your Dad.  Beautifully written as well. 

posted by Sinome on September 29, 2008 at 2:48 PM | link to this | reply