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Re: Sure took me long enough Rumored!
Thanks Sweetie!
posted by
Bel_
on September 13, 2008 at 10:32 PM
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Re: McKnife
Never had biological children but I am told it's pretty painful but worth it in the end. I'll take others at their word on that LOL!
posted by
Bel_
on September 13, 2008 at 10:32 PM
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Bel, it sounds like you've made a clean, clear break...congrats!....
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posted by
Rumor
on September 13, 2008 at 7:51 PM
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Shaking free...
...is a great thing. Getting out from under. Moving on. All that stuff. I guess when a marriage ends, it's like childbirth. There' s a lot of pain (I hear tell) but that soon fades and something good comes from it.
posted by
McKnife
on September 13, 2008 at 2:47 PM
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Wow Bel...good for you for being able to be calm and let logic
temper your emotions and thereby allowing you to see unobstructed.... (((BeL)))
posted by
mysteria
on September 13, 2008 at 10:00 AM
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Bel
Yes… sometimes a seemingly insignificant event, or something said can trigger that “turning point” when we’re no longer looking back but looking forward with excitement and a renewed spirit. Glad you’re feeling at peace.
posted by
Troosha
on September 13, 2008 at 9:50 AM
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Sam
Believe me it took some effort to get here and some massive tongue biting when I wanted to call him a few choice words. I loved this man for 11 years and we shared some wonderful times. I have made the choice to remember that we once loved one another and while life didn't turn out the way I expected or even hoped it would; he is still a decent man in a great deal of pain. He never had to allow me access to Pam as I have no biological ties to her, I owe him a great deal of gratitude for that.
posted by
Bel_
on September 13, 2008 at 9:40 AM
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I think it is good to part this way! I did not have such a good parting with my ex (probably something to do with a bullet to the back of head parting comment) LMAO now! I hope you get Pam. It sounds like a wholesome thing for her too! I will be praying my friend! sam
posted by
sam444
on September 13, 2008 at 9:35 AM
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Re: Shelly
I have cried more tears that I care to remember over him. The realization that I DO NOT want him back was a gift! Crying? NOPE! I am getting on with living!
posted by
Bel_
on September 13, 2008 at 9:12 AM
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I probably would have started bawling watching him drive away.
but I'm glad you have decided to move on with life in a positive way. Good for you!
btw...When my parents divorced, my mom ended up with a lot of my dad's stuff. I'm kind of glad though...it keeps me connected to the "dad" that I hardly knew.
posted by
shelly_b
on September 13, 2008 at 9:09 AM
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You keep your own backyard beautiful love~ Blog on! BCA, Bill’s Wave
posted by
BC-A
on September 12, 2008 at 11:21 PM
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Thank you so much Kabu
posted by
Bel_
on September 12, 2008 at 8:35 PM
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It's great to see you moving on and feeling settled and knowing this
is the right decision for you. All the best luv.
posted by
Kabu
on September 12, 2008 at 8:30 PM
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Re: Thank you Vogue
posted by
Bel_
on September 12, 2008 at 7:54 PM
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Re: Naut
I feel sorry for him as well. You are right, he is a very decent man and I truly wish him all the best, as I do believe he deserves it. The blessing in this, is we are both honest enough to admit we still care for one aother and in a strange sort of way, we are still kind of friends. We just can't be with one another any longer.
posted by
Bel_
on September 12, 2008 at 7:48 PM
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It seems that things are becoming clearer in your mind nd heart. Good for you to "let go". I wish you luck and happiness.
posted by
vogue
on September 12, 2008 at 7:47 PM
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Bel
Sometimes it's brief, almost insignificant moments that shed a light on things and make us understand things and ourselves, and I think that happened here. And I am very glad for you, though somehow I also feel sorry for Carl, a decent man, whom I have only known through you...
posted by
Nautikos
on September 12, 2008 at 7:42 PM
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Re: Taps
I fully intend to make it bright! Thank you!
posted by
Bel_
on September 12, 2008 at 7:34 PM
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As with TAPS......
I too am very interested in your success and happiness......and I worry about you, too. So please don't think of me as intrusive.........
posted by
Corbin_Dallas
on September 12, 2008 at 7:34 PM
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Re: Corbin
For all the things I can say Carl has done wrong, he is behind me 100% in getting Pam. He has agreed to do whatever needs to be done to make sure I have her...including giving up his own rights to her.
posted by
Bel_
on September 12, 2008 at 7:34 PM
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Bel, finally got caught up on your posts here. So glad the fighting couple are gone and I sure hope they took the wolf skin with them. You sound like you are coming to grips with everything that has happened to you and I hope your future is bright.
posted by
TAPS.
on September 12, 2008 at 7:30 PM
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Will Carl stay with you on this one?
posted by
Corbin_Dallas
on September 12, 2008 at 7:21 PM
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Re: Corbin
The Pam situation is a struggle right now, so what I will ask is that prayers continue that her bio mom quits fighting this and just allows her daughter a chance at a decent life.
posted by
Bel_
on September 12, 2008 at 7:16 PM
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Wow! Pretty heavy stuff here.......
I admire your strength.....your ability to cut the ties.....how is the Pam thing going....is it in the pipeline? Set in stone? Just curious.......
posted by
Corbin_Dallas
on September 12, 2008 at 7:13 PM
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