In her comment last night ( well, night time here in Spain, that is ) Pat_B posed those eternal, and eternally unanswerable questions: “ How do you know you've found " the one " and is it more than beauty or a sudden smile? Is it growing fondness or a sudden flash of passion? ” Oh, if only! If only one had the predictive talents of the Delphic Oracle, and the wisdom of Solomon to act upon those predictions. But we’re only human, with all a human’s frailties, and we have to depend upon instinct,... Sign in to see full entry.