The pain of love is the dynamite that breaks up the heart, even if it be as hard as a rock. Bowl of Saki, February 1, by Hazrat Inayat Khan Commentary by Hazrat Inayat Khan: The effect of love is pain. The love that has no pain is no love. The lover who has not gone through the agonies of love is not a lover, he claims love falsely.... Rumi describes six signs of the lover: deep sigh, mild expression, moist eyes, eating little, speaking little, sleeping little, which all show the sign of pain in... Sign in to see full entry.