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What are the doctor's orders? If it's 2 weeks then when that time is up get him released. No one can be made to stay against their will in this scenario. I will pray that the situation gets resolved soon and in your favor.
posted by
sam444
on March 2, 2026 at 8:20 PM
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I would get professional advice. Obviously, you would not want Jim to stay like this forever.
It is not much of a life for him. You must preserve your house. 🌺🌺
posted by
C_C_T
on March 2, 2026 at 12:53 PM
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I'd worry as well. Sherri has given great advice. I'd sure think about an attorney as well.
posted by
Sea_Gypsy
on March 2, 2026 at 11:06 AM
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It sounds like Sherri has a lot of great advice for you in her comment.
posted by
FormerStudentIntern
on March 2, 2026 at 10:53 AM
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My mom worked in Human Resources at a long-term care health facility. Because of the things she witnessed, she set up a trust. Setting up a trust protects your assets in the event that a nursing facility comes into the picture. You might want to speak to the Human Resources person in charge at Jim's facility and let them know that you would like to sign him out and have a home health aide visit rather than remain at the center where is currently receiving his care. Explain the insurance situation. Involuntary Transfer or Discharge from a Nursing Home - The Consumer Voice
Residents have the right to leave a long-term healthcare facility, but there are specific procedures and considerations involved.
Understanding Your Rights
Residents generally have the right to discharge themselves from a long-term care facility, but this must be done in accordance with facility policies and state regulations. Facilities cannot prevent residents from leaving unless there are legal or medical reasons to do so.
Reasons for Discharge
Common reasons for discharge include:
- Improvement in health status
- Desire to return home or to a different care setting
- Non-compliance with facility rules
- Safety concerns for the resident or others.
Process for Signing Out
- Notify Staff: Inform the facility staff of the intention to leave.
- Complete Necessary Paperwork: There may be forms to fill out to document the discharge.
- Plan for Transition: Ensure that there is a safe plan for transportation and care post-discharge.
If a resident faces resistance when trying to leave, it may be necessary to speak to an attorney.
Good luck!
posted by
Sherri_G
on March 2, 2026 at 8:31 AM
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It might be a good investment at this point to hire a lawyer. Or just mention to Jim when you visit that you're going to. If the rehab place is shady and they overhear you, they'll straighten up and fly right. Last thing they want is to have to fight off a malpractice suit.
posted by
Pat_B
on March 2, 2026 at 5:53 AM
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Good Morning
Kabu, I'm so sorry you and Jim are going through this, and hopefully, there will be a way to resolve this problem.
posted by
Goldiec
on March 2, 2026 at 5:51 AM
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