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I'm so sorry, Kabu. I am praying hard for you all.

posted by FormerStudentIntern on February 5, 2026 at 11:10 AM | link to this | reply

Well dear I think you knew deep down . One must think of the positive. Jim had a good life except for the last few months and if it had been you his life would not have been worth living . No harm in crying privately  Look I have tears in my eyes for you. I seem to have lost so many recently 🌺🌺

posted by C_C_T on February 5, 2026 at 10:04 AM | link to this | reply

Good Afternoon

Kabu, I'm so sorry!  I'm saying prayers for both of you!

posted by Goldiec on February 5, 2026 at 9:29 AM | link to this | reply

Praying For Healing My Friend

I pray that Jim is healed and continues to improve. Put your faith in God. Please, I know it is hard not to remember what happened in the past. Keep your mind focused on his healing. Block out all the negative thoughts. Remember, Jesus wept. We, humans, are meant to grieve. It is important to cry. Don't let the devil steal your hope. Take it back. We have had so much death at our church over the last several months.  My wife's youngest sister just passed away 2 days ago. Remember, whatever happens, focus on the joy you experienced with Jim. My heart goes out to you both. One thing I know is to always focus on the positive outcome. God can turn anything around.

posted by BearcatMike on February 5, 2026 at 9:19 AM | link to this | reply

I'm so sorry. You and Jim are in my prayers. 🙏

posted by Sherri_G on February 5, 2026 at 7:47 AM | link to this | reply

I'm sorry this is the fact now. He has been suffering so much. I suppose the mind can only take so much before it says it's time to be with the Lord. My prayers continue for you and Jim. 

posted by sam444 on February 5, 2026 at 6:53 AM | link to this | reply

As another kid who was taught not to cry, I'm telling you it's ok to cry if it helps you deal with the situation. Sending you a big hug and the hope that the day brings improvement. 🙏

posted by Pat_B on February 5, 2026 at 5:58 AM | link to this | reply

Oh My Goodness, Sweetie....

I'm so sorry.  May God keep you both in the hollow of His hand, May His Face shine upon you and give you both peace and shower you with His Love.  You have been through so many hard times (more than your share I would think.)  I went to bed but I could not sleep.  I must have  been feel your call  to prayer.

posted by TAPS. on February 4, 2026 at 11:23 PM | link to this | reply

Wilted rose

Our hearts are with you. Our prayers and good thoughts are with you. Our hope is with you. Both of you. I am so sad and pray for a miracle. 🌹🙏

posted by Sea_Gypsy on February 4, 2026 at 8:30 PM | link to this | reply