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Thank you, EVERYONE!

I appreciate your words. Sadly, what I will post tomorrow will be devastating... and I genuinely risked going to jail, but I stood up for my wife. It still makes me shake when I think about it.
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posted by BigV on November 20, 2025 at 10:43 AM | link to this | reply

It's unfortunate you took the brunt of Judy's collapse, as it were, after the 'C' section. I smiled inside when you stood your ground. I suffered 20+ years with migraines and when I read about them wanting to give Judy meds, I immediately said, treating the symptoms instead of the cause. I was in that boat fir years. I'm so sorry that such a wonderful, diligent person is meeting her demise!!! this way. Unfair comes to mind. I imagine you were just absolutely heartbroken at all the things she had to endure! I commend you with staying by her side, comforting her and giving her a safe haven. That's LOVE!!!

posted by sam444 on November 20, 2025 at 10:07 AM | link to this | reply

Re: Pat

Thank you. Sadly, it goes even worse. The next post (tomorrow, I think) is where I gambled my freedom to save my wife... It hurt to write it. It hurt doing tis re-edit, and I know it will hurt when I post it here.... but in the end... I did what I had to do to protect my wife. 

posted by BigV on November 20, 2025 at 8:45 AM | link to this | reply

I hope the helping group is able to find just the materials you need, and perhaps some volunteers to help you put it all right again.

posted by Pat_B on November 20, 2025 at 7:39 AM | link to this | reply

This very emotional chapter is so well told it's as though I were seeing all this in person. What an ordeal the two of you faced. 

posted by Pat_B on November 20, 2025 at 7:37 AM | link to this | reply