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Even if you are not doing anything it is tiring. Sadly there is no stimulus to form interests.
If you had a carer it would probably be a pain in the derriere.
Anyway I am too tired to write tonight. I have been digging and last night I did not get much sleep the lights fused and horrible smoke made the bed smelly so I threw the covers off and was so cold I had to dress and get into bed fully dressed of course the window was open and a fan running It was like being in a fridge. Bang! that's my head hitting the desk🌺🌺.
posted by
C_C_T
on April 14, 2025 at 10:54 AM
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Here's to hoping that Jim is able to sleep through the night...I'll have to check out that movie.
posted by
FormerStudentIntern
on April 14, 2025 at 10:46 AM
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I am praying for your strength and the renewal of your energy. Remember that you don't have to carry this burden alone. Never be too proud or stubborn to ask for help. That is why we have family. Many times, we forget to be honest with our family and friends. Also, when you get a chance to daydream. Close your eyes and think of beautiful days to come. When Jim is healthy, and you are all happy and loving life. Make it as detailed as possible.Â
posted by
BearcatMike
on April 14, 2025 at 8:25 AM
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Kabu....Of course you are worn out.....
.....and I am afraid you will continue to be. It is not so much the stuff you are doing for him as it is the tension from subconsciously worrying "What am I going to have to do next?" Apparently he is calling on you for assistance at any time he chooses and you cannot properly relax before you are on the go again. Tension can kill a person.  You need to work out your hours of rest where he will not bother you so you can relax properly and fully.
posted by
TAPS.
on April 13, 2025 at 10:01 PM
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Do take good care of you! When my mom needed more assistance than my sister whom she lived with could give, they had an aide come in two or three days a week and that made a lot of difference!
posted by
Ciel
on April 13, 2025 at 3:39 PM
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Finding the perfect comfy location is half the battle. It looks as though Jim has found his. We watched Lucy a few years ago. I like Scarlett Johannsen, but this movie is too creepy for me. I am not a fan of sci-fi at all. 
posted by
Sherri_G
on April 13, 2025 at 2:47 PM
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Little by little, he's improving and will soon be able to do without so much attention from you. A good night's sleep will do wonders for both of you. Fingers crossed it's very soon.
posted by
Pat_B
on April 13, 2025 at 12:28 PM
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