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It's very understandable to have those frustrating times as a caregiver for someone. A whole lot of ups and downs.
posted by
FormerStudentIntern
on October 23, 2018 at 8:52 AM
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I don't think there's any job more difficult and wearing on a person
than being a primary caregiver. You wouldn't be human if you didn't get discouraged and overwhelmed at times. I second the motion others have made: please get some help and respite and take good care of yourself. 
posted by
Pat_B
on October 23, 2018 at 5:17 AM
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Everyone goes through that every so often....you do a marvelous job watching over everything, we all become accustomed to a regular routine, and any deviance from the norm is upsetting.....buy life still goes on.......God Bless!
posted by
Corbin_Dallas
on October 23, 2018 at 3:42 AM
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We are human dear, i am afraid anger can appear suddenly and one has to fight it and reason with oneself that this is an illness that many cannot cope with. You are doing fine
but do take advantage of any help that is available. You cannot rely on those who are sometimes closely related, not many at all in fact. I know this sounds a bit despondent but you can do more than most in this situation, my mother just would not take any kind of pills, but they have improved so much in the last few years. Do not worry about what you write a good many heads stick in the sand.
posted by
C_C_T
on October 23, 2018 at 1:21 AM
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Kabu, darling...
You are doing the impossible, something I think you are used to doing. But hopefully, you will get some assistance to make things a bit easier. I'm very sorry that it is such a hard time for you both right now. Sending love and hugs to you both.
posted by
Sea_Gypsy
on October 22, 2018 at 8:38 PM
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Thank you.
posted by
adnohr
on October 22, 2018 at 6:52 PM
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