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I love that quote... it's how I feel about my brother most days.
posted by
-blackcat
on May 31, 2017 at 8:29 PM
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Kabu
I really hate commenting on family stuff, so let me just say I'm sure she means well...
posted by
Nautikos
on May 30, 2017 at 8:26 PM
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That kind of stuff wouldn't work too well on me either. Too stubborn am I.
posted by
TAPS.
on May 30, 2017 at 11:57 AM
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I only have a brother and he and I havent spoken since my mom died, and no one seems to care that i live alone
posted by
Lanetay
on May 30, 2017 at 9:22 AM
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I have a few family members who are that way, wanting to interject themselves into things...You sound like you have a good plan.
posted by
FormerStudentIntern
on May 30, 2017 at 9:05 AM
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Kabu dear
Do only whatever you decide and think best. and the decision should not interfere with your independence.
posted by
anib
on May 29, 2017 at 9:51 PM
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I think I would echo Ciel's comment.
posted by
adnohr
on May 29, 2017 at 6:33 PM
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I'm sure she feels that she is qualified to plan out your choices and decisions, and has the best interests of who she thinks you are, in mind. Some people we most wish could understand us, never can, never will, and we just have to let them be who they are while we remain who we are.
posted by
Ciel
on May 29, 2017 at 3:22 PM
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Kabuiepie;-)
Seems she never approved of you no matter what was transpiring. In her own way she loves you.
posted by
WileyJohn
on May 29, 2017 at 2:55 PM
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Kabu
It's a cop-out but I agree with the two previous posts. Also, I think she is yearning for a closeness with you, but on her terms. I wonder, is she happy? She will learn, you and she will get get along on mutual terms, but I do think she loves you, dear Sister.
posted by
Sea_Gypsy
on May 29, 2017 at 2:40 PM
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It's good that she cares, sounds like she needs to be needed.
But the situation she suggests is a long, long way off. No need to put the cart ahead of the horse... Hugs.
posted by
Pat_B
on May 29, 2017 at 12:02 PM
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I suppose in her mind you are still her baby sister. Meanwhile you have changed a myriad times and the old ways have gone forever. I do hope Wiley will be OK., he has the best chance in the world with you to care for him.
posted by
C_C_T
on May 29, 2017 at 11:22 AM
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