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Thans Kabu .. we shall see what happens later this week...
posted by
mneme
on September 28, 2016 at 8:11 AM
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I hope not, Taps, but it has certainly become strained.
posted by
mneme
on September 28, 2016 at 8:10 AM
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I thought about it BC-A, but in the end it's not a big deal... I just wanted a replacement so have sorted it and it cost very little, so it's no use falling out over a little thing when there are bigger issues to consider.
posted by
mneme
on September 28, 2016 at 8:09 AM
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Thanks RPresta - I thought it was an attempt at manipulation too. She is a lovely person, but ultra-focused on her family and their needs. I don't seem to come into it any more.
posted by
mneme
on September 28, 2016 at 8:08 AM
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No problem CCT - there is already a downstairs loo right next to the room I would be converting for her so a shower in that room is do-able - always assuming she would consent to moving...!
posted by
mneme
on September 28, 2016 at 8:06 AM
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Having looked after my mother I think a toilet and shower would be wiser. She will probably sleep downstairs eventually, just thoughts.
posted by
C_C_T
on September 27, 2016 at 10:26 AM
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Sounds like this could become of case of a bit of manipulation on her part. It's best that it end now, as well as later, perhaps. Just a thought.
posted by
Sea_Gypsy
on September 26, 2016 at 9:33 PM
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😺My landlady made her lodgers pay for a vase that the child broke when she wasn’t there love. BC-A, Bill’s R👀st
posted by
BC-A
on September 26, 2016 at 4:18 PM
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It sounds as if the friendship is waning.
posted by
TAPS.
on September 26, 2016 at 1:07 PM
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Good for you for standing up for yourself. Of course it is easier for us to give armchair advice when we are not there to back you physically. anyway I agree with your lodger, the house thing has run its course and yes you need the house back. Good buy and goodluck in your Caravan is what I say.
posted by
Kabu
on September 26, 2016 at 9:30 AM
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Ps (to CCT) - I don't know that I am becoming tougher ! My legs were shaking throughout the whole conversation, lol.
posted by
mneme
on September 26, 2016 at 9:12 AM
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I'd rather it be dull any day, FSI... smile.
posted by
mneme
on September 26, 2016 at 9:11 AM
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CCT, you're a mind reader! I am considering putting in a downstairs shower room for mum and converting my study to a bedroom ... failing that, a stair lift (although a shower would be more useful). xx
posted by
mneme
on September 26, 2016 at 8:43 AM
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Things are never dull when people are around.
posted by
FormerStudentIntern
on September 26, 2016 at 8:41 AM
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Well I does seem that you are becoming a bit tougher, you will not be able to keep visiting your Mother especially if she becomes poorly. If you do intend to care for her,you will need your own house. One has to be realistic at times. Anyway it is a good excuse for wanting your house back as you may have to do interior work to accommodate an older person.
posted by
C_C_T
on September 26, 2016 at 7:53 AM
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