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Yeah I dont like the fact he is alone but unfortunatley he has brought it on himself
posted by
Lanetay
on February 25, 2015 at 5:31 AM
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I understand your confusion and flood of mixed feelings. Recently I spent some time with my x as he is in hospice. He had not been so terrible to me so we actually had a delightful time. I hate the thought of him being alone. Talked with him yesterday and he was a bit confused but was concerned about me.
posted by
Inside_The_Purple_Purse
on February 25, 2015 at 2:40 AM
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yes he will always have a place in my heart
posted by
Lanetay
on February 24, 2015 at 3:16 PM
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how dads turn on their kids is beyound me
posted by
Lanetay
on February 24, 2015 at 3:15 PM
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My mom is that way. My dad left her for another and pretty much divorced us as well. I don't think I have heard from him in over 5 years.
Sorry to hear that his health is suffering....
posted by
Annicita
on February 24, 2015 at 2:08 PM
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Perfectly understandable. My younger sister is going ( and will be going ) through something similar. She is recently divorced ( after thirty years of marriage ) with four kids ( and a grandchild on the way ). We don't know how reactions will be once the baby is born, and, my sister is already getting remarried. But when it comes to health issues, I guess that's a whole other ballgame. Like you said, regardless of any possible resentment, you still don't want your ex to suffer. That's a tough situation . . . 
posted by
JimmyA
on February 24, 2015 at 12:10 PM
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hes in the state of WA so no I cant see him but I wish my kids could be there for him
posted by
Lanetay
on February 24, 2015 at 7:38 AM
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I am so sorry. See if it is alright for you to go see him if you would like to do so. I shall pray for you.
posted by
Justi
on February 23, 2015 at 11:08 PM
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yes I have never stopped the love
posted by
Lanetay
on February 23, 2015 at 10:25 PM
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you are so kind thank you
posted by
Lanetay
on February 23, 2015 at 10:24 PM
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Re: lustor
yes you two are probably right
posted by
Lanetay
on February 23, 2015 at 10:24 PM
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I thought after all these years and the bittereness I felt would of went away but still I did love him for along time
posted by
Lanetay
on February 23, 2015 at 10:23 PM
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I dont think any of us could afford to go to him but I agree I think at least one of the kids should be there.
posted by
Lanetay
on February 23, 2015 at 10:22 PM
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praying
Hi long time no hear ..On my art..lol...Anyway yes that first love is something else..You have a right to feel some type of way...I hope you can here something..You never know it might do your heart so good if you reach out to be by his side if he doen't have anyone..Much love
posted by
Charnell_Lanay
on February 23, 2015 at 8:34 PM
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Having children together creates a bond that never really breaks. I used to have an affection for my first husband because of our boys; then he sexually harassed our DIL...the lovely one, and I cannot forget what he did.
posted by
Kabu
on February 23, 2015 at 12:29 PM
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lustor
well i guess i know how you feel. i dont think one stops loving, they just do it differently, a different place in the heart that cct spoke about.
posted by
jeansaw
on February 23, 2015 at 11:29 AM
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That makes that you still love him in a way because of the history you two had together...I am wishig him all the best.
posted by
FormerStudentIntern
on February 23, 2015 at 11:25 AM
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Well of course LL. You had to feel like that because once you loved him and that is shielded in your memory. One has to harden oneself to some emotions or they would destroy one.I think you can now feel pity for him,I am sure you will feel happier doing so.
posted by
C_C_T
on February 23, 2015 at 11:10 AM
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