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well i would have given everything i own to have had a husband that would have gone with me to get help for the marriage and for ourselves. one that valued the truth and wanted to live a happier life.
yours is a marriage made in heaven and of love, true love. may you both live to a ripe old age to enjoy each other.
posted by
jeansaw
on September 21, 2014 at 1:31 PM
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Kabu
Aah, precious moments love. BC-A Bill's Roost
posted by
BC-A
on September 18, 2014 at 1:41 PM
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Needless to say, that is indeed very good news. Some people have difficulty connecting with others, but end up in a line of work that requires them to do just that. And then, they end up doing it poorly. It's good you found a 'sister' to relate to. I'm sure Sir Wiley will be just fine . . .
posted by
JimmyA
on September 18, 2014 at 1:05 PM
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Well of course it is a whammy for Wiley because boys did not cry and I don't think I cried until I felt I had nothing to live for. It is therapeutic of course as long as it can be controlled eventually. A real good cry can I believe release toxins and one can feel when they are released, it tastes comforting.
posted by
C_C_T
on September 18, 2014 at 12:26 PM
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And how many times do we tell them no but we know in our heart we will do anything to help; our compassionate nature kicking in! I am so glad the therapist turned out to be a most helpful and insightful human being. That gives you both hope that in time those 'crying spells' will be more understood. One who knows:)
posted by
Butterfly-1950
on September 18, 2014 at 8:32 AM
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I read recently that tears carry stress hormones out of the system
and that is why a good cry is a benefit.
When I was a teen, I had that 'good cry' now and then... like it came out of nowhere. Now I understand that the stress stuff just added up until it had to overflow.
posted by
Ciel
on September 18, 2014 at 6:20 AM
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Amen.
Whatever works in a positive manner is a good thing. You two are lucky to have each other's backs!
posted by
strat
on September 18, 2014 at 4:29 AM
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You couldn't really ask for more in a therapist...
And I do admire a man who's able to cry, a man like that has depth and understanding.
posted by
Pat_B
on September 18, 2014 at 2:31 AM
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Sounds like the visit was great. I am glad you went.
posted by
Justi
on September 17, 2014 at 7:34 PM
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I'm so happy and thankful to read this. For both of you. You know I love you both foever...
posted by
lovelyladymonk
on September 17, 2014 at 7:05 PM
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Kabuiepie-:)
You got along like two old friends, lovely you were there
posted by
WileyJohn
on September 17, 2014 at 6:58 PM
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I am glad to read that it was a positiv visit. I continue to wish Wiley all the best.
posted by
FormerStudentIntern
on September 17, 2014 at 6:31 PM
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This is soooo good to read! I know the bro is in the best of hands with a Kabu and her soul sister looking out for him.
posted by
adnohr
on September 17, 2014 at 5:21 PM
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Kabu
A success all around, and that's great...
posted by
Nautikos
on September 17, 2014 at 4:11 PM
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