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It's ok to love.. but to keep searching for happiness

Not everything is meant to be. 
I know it won't be much comfort, but a little over a year ago.. a reality dawned on me with someone I loved deeply. 

Some things just can't be, or they would be.  They guy and I loved each other very much.. we still do, as friends.  But I wasn't what he was looking for.. I couldn't give him what he needed in his life... to make his happiness.. to achieve his goals he had set for himself.

While I was quite devistated by this fact.. I finally let him go.. moved on to give someone else a chance.  It wasn't until I did this that I realized how close Abdellah was, and how close he had been trying to get to me for a long time... I didn't notice a lot of things that I love about him now.. because I was busy with my focus on someone else for months.

What I'm saying is.. if you don't open yourself to possibility.. you may miss what is right in front of your eyes.  It's ok to love someone and want the best for them... but you also have to be open to receive love that could come from anywhere.. it could be there now and you just don't notice.  I hope this helps.. I know things are rough for you in so many ways.

posted by Afzal_Sunny7 on May 7, 2013 at 12:31 AM | link to this | reply

That is a fine way to be, too! sam 

posted by sam444 on May 2, 2013 at 11:24 PM | link to this | reply

afzal

a wonderful quality you have

posted by jeansaw on May 2, 2013 at 6:30 PM | link to this | reply

I know that you can and will do so.

posted by FormerStudentIntern on May 2, 2013 at 11:46 AM | link to this | reply