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I think being a child of God is the best way to go! sam 
posted by
sam444
on May 3, 2012 at 6:11 PM
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TAPS
The individual knows what position she sits in just not anyone else. The helpers are not aware of who else in is that group as are those being helped. Only an individual. It is a remarkable theory, but it is frustrating because knowing how to help another depends on what you are helping with. This way it requires you depend totally on the Lord to guard your ears, eyes and tongue. That is difficult. This is a tiring course of events. I don't think I am qualified to fill the bill.
posted by
Justi
on May 3, 2012 at 9:48 AM
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if your not happy with the results I am sure that come accross when you are with this group. Do whatever best fits your life.
posted by
Lanetay
on May 3, 2012 at 8:02 AM
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I think it is a very interesting concept of no one knowing who is there to give help or to be helped. It certainly would foster a feeling of humility to think that everyone else might think one was there to be helped, for one who is always used to providing the help for others.
posted by
TAPS.
on May 2, 2012 at 7:42 PM
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Justi
I completely agree with CC! You won't do anyone any good if you overdo it! It is not selfishness to look after one's own health and well-being, but the prerequisite for helping others...
posted by
Nautikos
on May 2, 2012 at 6:56 PM
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CC has given you the best advice darling. You will actually become ill
if you don't cut back. Tell them that one who loves you and is worried has told you that your health is suffering from overload. Better to do one thing properly. take care sweet Lady.
posted by
Kabu
on May 2, 2012 at 3:32 PM
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CCT
You are such a wise man. I can always depend on good advice from you, thanks. 
posted by
Justi
on May 2, 2012 at 11:27 AM
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Justi who would be more perfect for the position that you are now trying to escape from, they need take no notice of you or very little, unless of course you shake the foundations and then of course you are needed desperately. You must look after your own health, I would just say, "I'm very sorry, either 'My Husband says I must cut down on my commitments, so it is out of my hands.'' Or '' I am just not well enough to to keep up with the admirable work, you are doing.'' Thinking to yourself.' I don't want to get to that stage either.'Good luck
posted by
C_C_T
on May 2, 2012 at 10:50 AM
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