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Sam, you're absolutely right... but how come other people see this, and 'get it', but I don't??.. smile... my (very supportive) partner tells me, gently, that I don't have any warning signals - which is probably why the ex got away with it for so long..
posted by
mneme
on February 6, 2012 at 4:01 AM
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He likes to keep the pot stirred so to speak! He has avenues to get the information, and he has received it, and he can then get clarification through the court too! He is wrong to involve your daughter, it is undue stress on all, but I suspect he gets some kind of misguided joy out of it as well! Take your stand and refuse to give into his whims whatever they may be! sam 
posted by
sam444
on January 30, 2012 at 7:32 AM
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Re: Hard work isn't he?
Hi Azur.. yes...that's why we're divorced..!..smile.. thanks for your support. What bothers me most is the ongoing effect on the kids. I know they are adults now, but they were a lot younger when things fell apart (going on 8 years now), and both of them are struggling to sort their own lives out. He seems quite content to let them worry about him as well, and that makes me very sad.
posted by
mneme
on January 30, 2012 at 12:58 AM
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Hard work isn't he?
Agree with what Naut says.
And don't give up a thing. Hold your own. If he want;s to jump up and down let him.
posted by
Azur
on January 29, 2012 at 12:14 AM
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Re: mneme
Thanks Naut... I agree completely. Hopefully he will stop trying to involve our daughter too. As an update... he emailed my lawyer yesterday, so of course has had the contact details all along. Nothing should surprise me should it...? smile..
posted by
mneme
on January 27, 2012 at 6:16 AM
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mneme
I would inform the ex that you have nothing more to say to him, that your lawyer is the only channel of communication in matters necessary for the case, instruct your lawyer accordingly, and stick to that decision. And yes, block his email...
posted by
Nautikos
on January 27, 2012 at 5:41 AM
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Re: Dear mneme,
Amanda, thank you, it means a lot to me.. bless you.
posted by
mneme
on January 26, 2012 at 7:56 AM
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Dear mneme,
Divorces are difficult and painful. I will keep you and your daughter in my prayers.
posted by
Amanda__
on January 26, 2012 at 6:58 AM
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