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mneme
Sam444 put it most succinctly mneme; the difference in you is all positive.  As for the flat feelings - yes we all get like that.  Those sinking feelings can last for a long time as well, but you seem to be doing very well mneme.  Keep it up young lass.

posted by johnmacnab on December 20, 2009 at 6:05 AM | link to this | reply

I am so impressed with your growth! The present moment is indeed the place to be! sam

posted by sam444 on November 23, 2009 at 10:05 AM | link to this | reply

Re: Interesting times
Wise words, Azur.. not exactly closed off to things, but there's something to be said for putting all your eggs in one basket... I like him.  I don't like that he seems concerned I might become dependent on him.  And here's me thinking we were 'seeing each other.'   Sounds like a relationship to me, even if we aren't committed so far. I just would like a bit more than 'be in touch.'   It would be nice to have a little bit of take-it-for-granted continuity for a change.  It's what I need, and want.  

posted by mneme on November 18, 2009 at 4:33 PM | link to this | reply

Re: mneme
Thanks Naut - and you aren't bugging me, I am working a little bit at a time... funny how the research is always so much easier than putting the chapters together...

posted by mneme on November 18, 2009 at 4:28 PM | link to this | reply

mneme
As so often, food for reflection here! And are you working on your dissertation? (I hope you don't mind that I'm bugging you about that...)

posted by Nautikos on November 16, 2009 at 6:53 PM | link to this | reply

Interesting times
I like how you sound quite open to things. I think we constantly wrestle with our wish for connection, managing enjoying it with not wanting too much, As soon as we want too much it gets tricky

 


posted by Azur on November 16, 2009 at 12:50 AM | link to this | reply