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Thanks sam .. in fact I'me beginning to think that certain projections (as my counsellors describe them) by others are my lot in life.  I seemed to have been the antidote to what's gone before, and then I wasn't needed any more.

posted by mneme on July 9, 2009 at 10:08 PM | link to this | reply

I think a break is in order as well! For me, I only take responsibility for my own actions and shortcomings, it's plenty without assuming some for another! sam

posted by sam444 on July 8, 2009 at 12:25 PM | link to this | reply

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Thanks Aspire - and you're right.  The recent ex was in a similar relationship to the one you describe.. not with me of course, which is ironic... 

posted by mneme on July 6, 2009 at 8:50 PM | link to this | reply

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Long overdue merkie, and will take a while so I don't beat myself up.

posted by mneme on July 6, 2009 at 8:48 PM | link to this | reply

Re: Touching...it's amazing how women take responsibility for the turn in
I'm still doing it, straightforward.. just rang one ex to see how some tests went.  I'm still me underneath all the upset.

posted by mneme on July 6, 2009 at 8:48 PM | link to this | reply

You've done well, but you know, somtimes it's the other way round... I've been in a relationship where the woman was the one who never apologised or took responsibility, so I guess it could be either one between man and woman

posted by Aspire2Inspire on July 6, 2009 at 11:34 AM | link to this | reply

Time to refocus !

posted by merkie on July 5, 2009 at 12:04 PM | link to this | reply

Touching...it's amazing how women take responsibility for the turn in
relationships!

posted by Straightforward on July 5, 2009 at 6:06 AM | link to this | reply