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Re: A clean page and meditate on the good in the world and what you have
Very good advice Norwood, and thank you for the poetry.

posted by mneme on May 12, 2009 at 2:18 AM | link to this | reply

Re: Hey mnem, u can make it.....you will do, put all your positive thoughts
Thanks 9STAR... I must have a word with myself and keep writing.

posted by mneme on May 12, 2009 at 2:17 AM | link to this | reply

Re: mneme
Good advice Troosha, and thank you for your kind thoughts.

posted by mneme on May 12, 2009 at 2:16 AM | link to this | reply

Re: Awsome deep heartfelt profound read, self love being aware moving forwa
Thanks for your thoughts Mystereo, and for stopping by.

posted by mneme on May 12, 2009 at 2:15 AM | link to this | reply

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Sam, thank you, and it's nice to have my blogit buddies to look out for me.

posted by mneme on May 12, 2009 at 2:14 AM | link to this | reply

A clean page and meditate on the good in the world and what you have
Letting go of the past

You are your own angel

connect to the Godliness within your soul

and move on from the mess

Be blessed, and bless

in your strength for you are a woman and we all know

women are strong mothers!

 


posted by Norwood on May 4, 2009 at 8:40 PM | link to this | reply

Hey mnem, u can make it.....you will do, put all your positive thoughts and
believe ......YOU ARE NEVER ALONE..........GOD AND ANGELS WILL BE WITH YOU.......

posted by Star5_ on May 1, 2009 at 8:24 PM | link to this | reply

mneme
Such raw, almost stinging emotion.  You have been through so much, my dear.  Go easy on yourself as you embark upon these final days/weeks of your separation discussions.  When both people’s emotions are running high it’s easy to lose sight of why you set out on this transforming journey and it’s even easier to blame yourself.  

posted by Troosha on May 1, 2009 at 2:37 PM | link to this | reply

Awsome deep heartfelt profound read, self love being aware moving forward.

posted by Mystereo on May 1, 2009 at 2:08 PM | link to this | reply

I so wish you find peace! Some things just need to be over! You are a fine person and please don't forget that! Take hold of your life and be all that you can be! Regarding the conclusion, it wasn't normal in my opinion either! Best wishes and my blessings to you! sam

posted by sam444 on May 1, 2009 at 7:45 AM | link to this | reply

Just a quick word from Spenser:  "Old love is litle worth when new is more prefard." (FQ VI.ix.40.9)
How true that is.  Whichever way you look at it, love changes everything. I doubt there's be much of a creative writing/music industry if it didn't.

 


posted by mneme on May 1, 2009 at 1:46 AM | link to this | reply

Ay, me... (borrowed from Shakespeare)
How did I ever get myself into this stupid mess? Why did I trust either one of them? Life was predictable once, I had my kids, and I will never have that irritated comfort zone again.  I don't miss my husband, he didn't know how to take care of me when I needed it.  I never asked much.  Perhaps I should have.  I missed my father in the eight years we were apart, before he died, and my husband's insensitivity around that time was a large part of why the marriage failed.  I just wasn't supposed to mind.  Maybe he really can't help it - in which case he's to get a medical diagnosis and then I would be able to make an informed decision.  It's not as if I haven't told him this.  He just doesn't think anything he does is ever wrong. 
Yet I have no hate in me, only sadness, and anger I suppose.  Quiet anger. Raising my voice, just once, with the new man I loved, was enough to make him reconsider.  God knows I will never do it again.  He knows this too.  He is with someone now.  My husband was delighted.  Anger just doesn't do any good.  I've seen too much of it to ever want to give it out or to be on the receiving end.  Dear God... this is a very tough lesson... have I had enough yet?

I'm off home now ... with the paperwork.  Goodnight fellow bloggers.


posted by mneme on May 1, 2009 at 1:40 AM | link to this | reply