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posted by
Azur
on February 15, 2009 at 9:13 PM
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How could you stand it dragging out for five years? That sounds so awful.
posted by
TAPS.
on February 9, 2009 at 5:34 PM
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Be strong. Get rest and believe in yourself.
posted by
BetsyLewis
on February 9, 2009 at 3:21 PM
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This Must wear you out.
My heart goes out to you.
posted by
scotcanada
on February 8, 2009 at 5:55 PM
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Re: By the time you get through this legal jungle and force the guy
Thanks Pat B - though I would rather not have to be this tough:) I keep him in my thoughts and prayers as I do believe he is very unhappy, but that's not a reason for me to stay married.
posted by
mneme
on February 8, 2009 at 5:53 PM
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Re: mneme
Naut, trouble is, if he could behave decently and gentlemanly neither of us would be in this situation in the first place...
I'll let the courts deal with it. I can't quite believe that this is where we are now. It happens, and there are a lot of people a lot worse off than I am. Seems when it comes to the nitty gritty of financials, and reality hits, people change quite remarkably.
posted by
mneme
on February 8, 2009 at 5:51 PM
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mneme
This
is a terrible situation, and I really feel for you! Is there nobody who can shame that man into behaving decently and gentlemanly?
posted by
Nautikos
on February 8, 2009 at 5:19 PM
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By the time you get through this legal jungle and force the guy
to do right by you, you are going to be one tough mama. And you'll probably have a real job you love that's well-paid by then. Of course until the assets are divided, it may be better to have little or nothing, because he might go after half of yours. What a schmuck he is.
posted by
Pat_B
on February 7, 2009 at 6:26 AM
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