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Hi vogue
thanks for visiting. I never ignore input:) I don't mind being on my own and separated from my husband, heaven knows I need the peace this brings.. I don't particularly like the separation from my son, by 12,000 miles. The promising new relationship has all but foundered with this separation... it was a risk. I hope there may be a change of heart one day and I'll be back, it's not up to me now. Love has a funny way of getting to you... it definitely lifted me... I felt like a rose in the desert when it rains. He is a wonderful man and, if not me, then I hope he finds someone to really appreciate him.
posted by
mneme
on September 12, 2008 at 9:36 PM
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Hi Azur
thanks - maybe I'll get a chance at the airport. Busy trying to pack at the moment.
posted by
mneme
on September 12, 2008 at 9:30 PM
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Thanks Taps
I'll try to remember that. And a fish without a bicycle probably doesn't know what it's missing...:) unfortunately I do and I won't find that again in a hurry, nor do I think I want to take the risk, for a long while yet. One day at a time.
posted by
mneme
on September 12, 2008 at 9:29 PM
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I ask myself that daily
It's a little bit more complicated than it seems, PatB ... my life has been under my husband's control for so long that I have found it hard to break free. I never wanted to, until he turned into someone different. He created a very crazy situation and I became unable to make any decisions, and am still having help from my GP. I lost someone dear to me out of this situation and am not over that yet.
posted by
mneme
on September 12, 2008 at 9:28 PM
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Hope you can look outwards today
Very hectic times but will be in touch before you fly
posted by
Azur
on September 11, 2008 at 9:55 PM
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My question is why?
Why put yourself under his whim of iron? Clearly it's not making you happy. I hope you find happiness soon. :)pat
posted by
Pat_B
on September 11, 2008 at 6:51 AM
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Mneme
Was thinking of you today.
posted by
Azur
on September 11, 2008 at 6:01 AM
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I'm probably the odd one out, but here is my experience for what it's worth. I'm living alone since many years, I have been married three times and have finally found out that I am not a partnership person. I enjoy every minute of my freedom, surrounded by a lot of friends but with no one too close to hamper my independence. Didn't help, did it?
posted by
vogue
on September 11, 2008 at 1:25 AM
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mneme, sometimes the wonderful memories seem to have nearly disappeared into the fog of the past, and the sad times seem to last so long. But, there will be better days.
Remember,
"A woman without a man is like a fish without a bicycle."
posted by
TAPS.
on September 10, 2008 at 6:10 PM
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