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Ciel, so true, so true

posted by Greenfields on July 12, 2008 at 11:15 AM | link to this | reply

there is a time when stuff is of great value,
and then a time when open space is priceless!

posted by Ciel on July 11, 2008 at 7:58 PM | link to this | reply

elysianfields
I am so happy with all the stuff I have taken out of the kitchen I cannot tell you. 

posted by Greenfields on July 11, 2008 at 12:54 AM | link to this | reply

Ciel, I do feel I have to let go
I wo uld like to visit new stuff, if you know what I mean.  I firmly believe that if I don't new things will not be opened up for me...

posted by Greenfields on July 11, 2008 at 12:53 AM | link to this | reply

Greenfields...I understand your feelings - attachment so much...empathize greatly.  Through many renovations and many moves - I have let go of so much --- and now as we're considering this change for our retirement, well, I opened up my antique shoppe and offer some pieces of mine at reasonable prices (chips and all) and the rest, I save as you for my family ~ I truly understand this Elyse

posted by elysianfields on July 10, 2008 at 8:26 PM | link to this | reply

And you can always visit any stuff you find you really miss...

posted by Ciel on July 10, 2008 at 5:25 PM | link to this | reply

TAPS. very true.

posted by Greenfields on July 8, 2008 at 11:58 PM | link to this | reply

That's a lot easier than messing with eBay too, Greenfields.

posted by TAPS. on July 8, 2008 at 11:37 PM | link to this | reply

Ciel, now that's an idea! Thanks.

posted by Greenfields on July 8, 2008 at 7:43 PM | link to this | reply

It's nice to pass along some old favorites to friends
and family, to be a token of affection.  I have always loved to have things that remind me of friends and family, and I know my kids value things that belonged to me after belonging to my mom and dad, or my grandparents.  Our family has always lived far apart, so it can be really special.

posted by Ciel on July 8, 2008 at 10:23 AM | link to this | reply

TAPS.
Have you been talking to my husband?  He's got a whole bunch of stuff he told me I could put on eBay.  But, I send these to a woman who had two second hand shops.  The proceeds go to a drug detox centre and an AIDS hospice she runs.  I just put all the stuff in the car and send it to her.  She also picks things up. I believe she and others needs the money more than I do.  Yes?

posted by Greenfields on July 8, 2008 at 8:02 AM | link to this | reply

NiteTide
Thanks.  It is easy for me to let go, once I make up my mind to (talk aboout stating the obvious).  And you know what?  I never miss them because it's out of sight, out of mind for me.  Once its gone, pfffffffffffff, its gone.

posted by Greenfields on July 8, 2008 at 7:59 AM | link to this | reply

Greenfields, I enjoyed so much your description of those things.  Sounds like you have some eBay possibilities (except for the chips of course.  lol)

posted by TAPS. on July 8, 2008 at 1:46 AM | link to this | reply

Aww....it's always hard to let go of things!!  I know how that feels, I am a major scavenger and when I need to "de-crap" I find I don't do it enough because I end up with the same amount of crap as I started with.  I find that when it comes to moving from place to place for me however, it's easier to get rid of things....no I take that back, it's not easy, but I do, because I don't want to carry them around anymore.    You will probably noticed one of two things when you let things go:  1) you will suddenly have a need for it, not have it, and make do with what you do have (or buy something new) or 2) you will never think about it again.  My thoughts are on the latter.  I hope it works out!!!

posted by NiteTide on July 8, 2008 at 12:33 AM | link to this | reply