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Afzal
Marriage is none of these things....or all of these things...depending on one's perception.
Nothing stays constant, everything changes. If we don't change with the times, then we are flowing against the current.
In my opinion, marriage has nothing to do with society (except the legal aspect that you are entitled to nothing if your significant other dies and you are not married), and nothing to do with other people at all, unless you are so incorporating it.
It is something that is between two people (and God if they believe or it is so chosen). It is a commitment and a way of life between those two people.
Any rules or such should be made within the relationship, upon the agreement of both parties.
A marriage is what you make it.
posted by
Afzal_Sunny7
on June 27, 2008 at 7:45 PM
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Very wisely said, but I still believe in marriage....
posted by
Star5_
on June 27, 2008 at 5:08 PM
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i agree. well spoken.
posted by
thecryptkeeper
on June 27, 2008 at 3:27 PM
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Very well written Afzal! sam
posted by
sam444
on June 27, 2008 at 1:26 PM
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Very true Afzal..hypocrisy at it's highest..bravo! - Ash
posted by
ash_pradhan
on June 27, 2008 at 11:25 AM
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question
You wrote this in the "present tense," implying that all these things are true
today, but in the last paragraph you said these rules and prejudices are not followed anymore.
To speak precisely, it has never been necessary for a man and woman to marry before living together, although in many societies they would be subject to social stigma and possible punishment. I know even today there are some countries where young women are killed even for talking to men.
posted by
stonedead
on June 27, 2008 at 6:38 AM
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Afzal, I am inclined to believe that marriage these days is just a
piece of paper, nothing more and nothing less; thanks for sharing your thoughts, have a good weekend and God bless
posted by
mariaki
on June 27, 2008 at 5:43 AM
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Very Good!
I applaud you!
posted by
Kolekshuns
on June 27, 2008 at 5:37 AM
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