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Re: Carrie
I think my son will be better off in the long run. My husband is not helping provide, but helping spend, and I can't do this much longer. There are other factors of course, but this is helping me get my thoughts out in the open. I appreciate your comments.
posted by
carriemarie
on January 13, 2008 at 4:10 PM
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We went to counseling. The problem is in hindsight, I realize there was a pattern to this type of behavior before we were even engaged. I have grown since then, and it's not what I want in life. My son know sthat things are rough, and he is feeling like it's his fault. I feel terrible, but I can't sty in the marriage for him only. It will make him miserable.
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carriemarie
on January 13, 2008 at 4:08 PM
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Carrie
Your husband doesn't want to be alone, you, for unstated reasons are done with the marriage but what matters most at this point is what is most healthy for your child. If your environment is unhealthy then get out, if not, don't divorce a family.
posted by
SEEDLINGS
on January 6, 2008 at 11:35 AM
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Do you have any...
...feelings at all left for this man? Can counselling help do you think? How does your daughter feel about your breaking up her parents? What are his redeeming qualities, if any? These are all questions that should be looked at, I believe, before making a final decision one way or the other. Make a list of everything that is good about him and everything that is bad. Which outweighs the other?
posted by
b2008
on January 6, 2008 at 9:32 AM
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