Go to MY PERCEPTIVE REFLECTION!!
- Add a comment
- Go to WHY CANT HE JUST LEAVE ME ALONE AND LET ME BE HAPPY WITH SOMEBODY ELSE!!!!
Hi Symphony,
Hi Symphony,
From what I have read here I don't think the man has the guts to kill himself. Maybe I am a bit hard at times, but what I would do is the next time he threatens to--I would simply say, "Go ahead, I will gladly come to your funeral. But you have tried to manipulate me long enough, and our son will be much better off without you in his life anyway." Probably those exact words and defintely something real close to that--if that didn't get his attention nothing would.
Take care,
Damon
posted by
Damond
on January 15, 2008 at 12:25 PM
| link to this | reply
Thank you all!!!
missing you all!!
posted by
_Symphony_
on December 18, 2007 at 6:26 AM
| link to this | reply
I found myself in a similar situation years ago. It's not easy to deal with by no means and you have to find the way that works best for you. I ended up ignoring the calls and messages and slowly he stopped. It took a while for me to see that there were reasons we broke up. Cheers and good luck.
posted by
Galvanized1
on December 5, 2007 at 12:13 AM
| link to this | reply
Thanks for reading
Max
posted by
contagion_publishing
on November 27, 2007 at 2:50 AM
| link to this | reply
posted by
Amanda__
on November 12, 2007 at 5:27 AM
| link to this | reply
sounds complicated....
just hang in there...
posted by
sherri7
on November 7, 2007 at 5:20 PM
| link to this | reply
Don't give him the power over your life anymore.
Let him threaten all he wants. You deserve to be HAPPY and to have a life without mind games and abuse. Just remember you deserve more than he will EVER give you!
posted by
FactorFiction
on November 1, 2007 at 5:03 PM
| link to this | reply
Symphony
Falling in and falling out of love takes time. Don't rush too quickly, be sure, and in the meantime stop and smell the roses.
Lou
posted by
Cameraeye
on October 26, 2007 at 10:10 PM
| link to this | reply
symphony
as soon as he finds someone else he will leave you alone - hope it's sooner rather than later.
posted by
mneme
on October 17, 2007 at 5:03 AM
| link to this | reply
i think life with my ex will be very similar once i have this baby
not something im looking forward too..
that new guy sounds pretty great
posted by
MiaElla
on October 16, 2007 at 9:47 PM
| link to this | reply
Symphony................
I'm with justi - call his bluff and tell him to get a life. Be happy!
posted by
MaggieMae
on October 16, 2007 at 9:08 AM
| link to this | reply
Symphony
Your ex does not have all his oars in the water. He is coning you. When he tells you he is going to kill himself give him a help line number. Tell him to get over it. Get well, grow up and just because you have a child together you will not tolerate his stuff any more. He has messed up your life enough already, don't you think?
posted by
Justi
on October 15, 2007 at 9:28 PM
| link to this | reply
That is a tough one. Good luck trying to find the answers!
A smile
and few roses
from me and Bo =^..^= the wonder dog!
posted by
Whacky
on October 15, 2007 at 9:26 PM
| link to this | reply
Oh dear Symph...I am the wrong person to ask that question to...I think letting the ex go was probably for the best though considering the history...Glad you have met someone else~
posted by
Offy
on October 15, 2007 at 10:03 AM
| link to this | reply
First of all, you made the right decision, 100% to get away from him
second of all, it might be that your son is no longer safe to be around your ex. Perhaps you need to file a restraining order and cut off all communication with him and go to court to get sole custody of your son, at least temporarily until he stops with the abusive behavior.
posted by
le_divorcee
on October 15, 2007 at 9:44 AM
| link to this | reply
I'm going to email you today. Take care...
posted by
lovelyladymonk
on October 15, 2007 at 7:07 AM
| link to this | reply
If a person has mental problems, it is unlikely he can change a lot even with the aid of psychiatric medication. Take care.
posted by
A-and-B
on October 15, 2007 at 5:25 AM
| link to this | reply
Your ex is obviously playing mind games with you
your reaction feeds his action; at some point he will realise he cannot manipulate you any more; if I were you dear Lady, I would get on with my life with the new relationship and with ignoring his behaviour. Should he carry out his threat (and I doubt very much if he will) it will in no way be down to you - this is moral blackmail and deserves to be totally ignored. Good luck and God bless
posted by
mariaki
on October 15, 2007 at 4:42 AM
| link to this | reply