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Re: Welcome to Blogit, where most of us have been there
Thanks for your wise advice, I agree, just that it is not easy ... I feel sometimes very anxious about being loved, and understood, and if someone gives me attention, I love it at the beginnig, then start to sabotage it, and doubt, and see defects, and risks... It is so difficult!!
But thanks for your words. I will keep on writing, I just posted something new...
posted by
live2write
on July 1, 2008 at 4:08 PM
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Thanks for sharing, beautiful thoughts!
posted by
live2write
on July 1, 2008 at 4:05 PM
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we learn from our experiences
we grow from our mistakes, be find ourself with our questions, dont feel bad, i can say i've been there, done that, and it is true, but that is what life is all about, i'm 61 now and still finding all these things to be true, sometimes i think we set ourselves up by being the romantic sort, but i dont think i would change that concept, i still have a long ways to go and i still believe that my true soul mate is out there, hiding, waiting for me to find him. ohhh weelllll, maybe tomorrow. - peg
posted by
1pegesus4u
on September 22, 2007 at 9:28 AM
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Arthur Ashe, the great humanitarian and tennis player wrote, "From what we get, we can earn a living; what we give, however, makes a life."
Please continue to share.
posted by
EX_TURPI
on September 9, 2007 at 8:59 AM
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Welcome to Blogit, where most of us have been there
You will, doubtless, get lots of advice, maybe seeming contradictory, but we are all colored by our experiences and who we are. The only general advice I can give is what somebody tried to give me many, many years ago and that is to find out who you are before launching into anything new romantically. What kept me from following it then, and what you should come to terms with, is the feelings of rejection where the first affirmation coming from a likely romantic partner, as well as the second, third, fourth and fifth, becomes the target of pent-up love. This is not to say that you should deny those feelings and keep them pent-up. I would say to vent them in other ways than sexual intercourse. Writing is one excellent way of doing this.
Good luck.
Carl Peter
posted by
cpklapper
on September 8, 2007 at 7:47 PM
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Go slow and be cautious with whom you mix .Once bitten twice shy .
posted by
afzal50
on September 8, 2007 at 7:28 AM
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