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Take your time.
If he is worth it, he will wait until you are comfortable. I'd be scared s***less, myself after all you have been through... heck I think I am scared with you...
posted by
FactorFiction
on August 31, 2007 at 10:50 AM
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Lady_Symphony
This must be an exciting time for you fraught with emotions, laced with fears. I have no advice for you. You have to do it yourself. And you can. Trust your instincts.
posted by
TAPS.
on August 31, 2007 at 8:08 AM
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Don't be scared
Human beings are very resilient. Our hearts are made to mend. Sure, there are risks, boy are there risks, but the rewards can be even bigger.
posted by
le_divorcee
on August 31, 2007 at 7:06 AM
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symph
Just take your time... if he truly wants a relationship with you, he will not push it too fast for you. Good luck..!
posted by
mneme
on August 31, 2007 at 3:37 AM
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go for it. don't let fear stop you. you're beautiful & amazing
and deserve some happiness
posted by
MiaElla
on August 30, 2007 at 11:42 AM
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Symphony, good for you, sweet one......
I hope that this is the love you seek, and for him also, but until you know for sure, keep a cautious eye and ear. You haven't known him very long. A weekend relationship may be the answer for a while. You've been single for a while and may not want him underfoot for longer that that, at first. Give yourself time, Sweetie. If it's real, he'll keep coming back. Mine did and after 43 years, I've still got him. hahaha Good luck!
posted by
MaggieMae
on August 30, 2007 at 4:16 AM
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Sounds like you're a goner! LOL Enjoy it and may it lead to a VERY HAPPY
relationship!
posted by
Ariala
on August 29, 2007 at 6:49 PM
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I say follow your heart and go for it....you can have love and passion without losing yourself...just hold on to you and everything will be fine win or lose...remember you and your kids come first and hold firm to that, other than not breaking that rule have at it lol...lets just hope he is great in bed...if so long distance weekends will be fine lol
posted by
Problem_Girl
on August 29, 2007 at 6:47 PM
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It is a test. Don't relocate. He has to do it if he really wants it. Don't give up your home. You never know when you might face the homeless situation again. I'm sorry if these are hard words. You know I mean well.
(A)
posted by
A-and-B
on August 29, 2007 at 3:29 PM
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Lady Symphony
Hi sweet lady. This is good news. I think you had such a surprise last time, get to know him, really get to know him. Ask yourself if he has been on his own long enough after the break up. You have supported yourself, taken care of a family, can he do those things? It is beautiful to be in love but walk softly and slowly like the beautiful woman you have become. Best wishes deal lady.
posted by
Justi
on August 29, 2007 at 9:31 AM
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Well now Symphony
I really can't give you any advice because since you have been away falling in love I have moved from my home state into my b/friends' house!
There has to be more level headed people to give advice then me...Yikes~
posted by
Offy
on August 29, 2007 at 7:53 AM
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hey!
ok i may sound mushy....and lovey dovey and all.but hey!! its not business u know...wat ever b the reason ....here in this case ur heart will win over ur mind.....u watch it babe!!!heheheh
posted by
alicemalice
on August 29, 2007 at 7:48 AM
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love is all around!!
love is all around definitely....
but i wud say....let go of urself.....ur not committing are you??
follow your heart...go with the flow!!
let there be love.......
love rocks!!!
posted by
alicemalice
on August 29, 2007 at 7:46 AM
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Love is a great thing...but I would take it slow and get to know him better
I know it's hard because the last thing we feel like doing when we fall in love is to go slow... but it's better to go slow than get hurt.
Happiness to you
posted by
Sheilah
on August 29, 2007 at 7:37 AM
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YOu are in love . Go ahead ! God bless you !
posted by
afzal50
on August 29, 2007 at 7:25 AM
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Symphony, Take a breath. I only say this for out of my concern for you as a
friend. Love is nice, love is good, but to rush in is a risky thing to do. It always is. I don't want to dissuade you from your happiness, but I want you to read these words:
"Taking things slow may be the right idea - getting to know him more as I don’t really know enough….right?"
Someone, I consider as a close friend said those words and I feel it's the best choice of action for you to take. Welcome home, Luv
posted by
I-R-William
on August 29, 2007 at 7:22 AM
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Right, love...I'm on my way with an email!...
posted by
lovelyladymonk
on August 29, 2007 at 7:04 AM
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